I have been in a long distance relationship for a little over a year. We see each other on average, once a month. We talk on the phone once a day and text or Skype the rest of the time. My question is: How much sex is normal when long distance? My boyfriend thinks we do not have enough. If he is here 7-10 days, we have sex about 4 times. If he is here 3 days, we have sex twice. I think this is reasonable. I do not feel especially hyper about having sex with him as soon as he walks in the door. I'm just wondering if other people are all over each other the entire time or not because I don't feel like having any more sex than when we lived in the same city. Note: We never have sex with other people. He never masturbates. I masturbate on a semi-frequent basis.