How much porn do girls watch compared to guys?

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  1. Zazzles

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    In our relationship we both watch porn and are still to watch it together. We were just wondering how much porn females watch when compared to males? Obviously everyone is different and we think there is no right or wrong answer but we are curious.
    When we compare to each other the male of the relationship watches more.
    Please comment and let us know :)

    The Zazzle couple
     
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    We don't watch all that much but she watches more than me as I get bored easily.
    We do sometimes watch it together but since she likes MFM and I don't particularly it is usual for me going down on her as she continues to watch on he i-Pad. At the first "O" she throws it away!
    BTW she is far younger than me but that may not be of any relevance.
     
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    Slutty likes the sex and submission site... But never seems to watch it when I'm around..
     
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    At this point he watches way more than me.
     
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    I watch more then my husband.
     
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    3:1?

    I go thru periods where I watch some and periods with none.

    If you want a general population answer here, I don't think you'll find it.
     
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    We watch the same site, together though. Gives us "ideas" :)
     
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    I don't watch much porn and women I know vary from a little to almost none. The ones who don't watch visual porn are the ones most likely to be turned on by written erotica, and I believe that more women are into written erotica of various levels, be they the dominance and submission novels so popular these days, good, mainstream fiction with a romantic / erotic sub-plot, or even straight romance genre fiction with obvious erotic undertones (the biggest selling genre of all fiction, so romance means a lot to many women). I think many women like to fill in the blanks and also to imagine themselves being tied up and becoming a controlled but sexual commodity, or imagine themselves swept of their feet by the irristable tall, dark and handsome hero. This is where reading has an advantage over more in-your-face visual pornography.

    These women will probably respond best sexually when their male partner knows what he wants to do with them, ravish them, and he makes sure that he does! When he does he'll be invited back for more of the same.
     
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    I forgot to add, Patti likes to read out loud porn stories from Literotica while we are driving on trips. Makes rest stops very exciting :rolleyes:
     
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    I used to watch all the damn time (if not watching there was a porno going on in my head). Some might even say I was an addict - knew all the stars, studios, directors, and that stuff. (Leave it to a guy like me to learn waaayyy too much about something like porn.)

    D says she has watched now and again, but never really got into it. Told me that it all felt too staged/planned - even the amature/home video stuff.

    When the two of us do watch together it's usually to make fun of it or see if there's anything in it that might be fun to try ourselves.

    The only porn we view with any degree of seriousness is the pics/videos we've made ourselves... and aren't those always the best kind? ;)
     
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    Bingo!
     
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    My wife watches zero porn. I wish she would , with or without me just because ...well I think it is hot and it would allow me to learn more about what she likes since it is hard for her to express herself.
     
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    porn-for-women1.jpg *snicker*
     
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    If you want to explore sexual options your could buy some educational DVDs from the Sinclair Institute, which are quite explicit but also educational, and get your wife to pick some options. That worked for my wife who doesn't like porn and doesn't know what she doesn't know about sex. She also found the sex scenes on the Sinclair DVDs, given they're real couples, to be quite arousing. She could picture herself in the scenes instead of the women and that pushed her to be more experimental.
     
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    Totally agree with the above post.
    I worked for me too :)
     
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    I think that rather than the endless 'is my penis too small?' discussions, real gems on forums like this can be found in the mundane, little victories that some of us have scored. Sharing what worked for us might benefit another couple, and that's a good thing.

    I hope this does work for doitagain and his wife, and the only real obstacle is to get the wife to agree to watch some educational DVDs in order to explore options for shared pleasure. If you get that agreement then check their catalogue and see what you want.
     
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    On my own I watch porn a few times a week. Pretty much whenever I feel like it. It can be difficult to find stuff that is any good and that's discouraging. With my husband we watch porn together every other day or so. He usually finds the stuff we watch together so I don't have to find everything myself.
     
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    I will suggest it when we get further into conversation about things like this. It's probably more her style. We have made little strides here and there we just find very little alone time due to a few life reasons, not a lot that can be done about it right now......but it is my birthday this month and usually she gets more adventurous plus we get alone time ;-) thanks for the advice
     
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    We both watch it - sometimes he watches more than I do, other times it's the opposite. We don't like the same type of porn though. He likes it rough, usually watches anal porn while I like the 10 mins+ ones where it starts slow and it's more passionate.
     
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    i don't really watch it. it just doesn't do anything for me. but i do love reading erotic literature. ;)