[Ask a Girl] How much is too much ???

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  1. heelover

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    Just curious as its not an issue of mine..Anymore,lol.. My wife of almost 20 years told me her ex bf initially pulled out his dick an it was so big she told him he wasn't putting that in her. Well he did an did for a few years. He was a big guy, 6'4ish an apparently packing. I am avg height, dick size etc..My question is, can a guy "that big" do the normal pounding or does he have to stop short ?? With the exception of a few. She said too big for anal an he would complain about her teeth with a bj.. luckily my smaller dick fits in her ass an mouth perfectly . lol
     
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    My advice: Stop obsessing over it and be glad of what you have.

    In answer to your question about "normal pounding"...
    Bigger size makes things more complicated. Length/girth that are too much beyond the "average" spectrum are usually more of a hindrance than a blessing. If a guy happens to be that large, then (if he has any care about being a good lover) he has to pay more attention to what he's doing. While women are surprisingly "elastic" and the human body can handle surprising amounts of punishment - that doesn't necessarily make for a very enjoyable experience. Then again, there are punishment princesses and size queens out there, so..................
    Too much girth - it's not going to fit comfortably/pleasurably in anywhere.
    Too much length - you can only go in so far before things are no longer comfortable/pleasurable for your partner.
    Watch a porno with one of these ridiculously hung guys and you'll see that only in rare cases are they actually all the way in - and usually it's camera angles and position that create the illusion of them being "balls deep."
     
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    My ex was really big. I loved it on my ass. He could pound my ass and pussy hard no problem.

    I'm not an oral girl so I didn't like giving him bj's.
     
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    It's a shame. I love BJs
     
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    You've seen the pics....
     
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    And I know from the pics that you can do a fine job.
     
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    His height is irrelevant and as for the size of his penis being too big for her, that doesn't mean much to us because what's big to her doesn't have to be big to everyone.

    As stated above some women like an above average penis and can handle it well.
    I'm sure there are women that prefer average or even small as well.
     
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    I prefer 5" to 7". Anything above that and having balls deep sex is out of the question. I do like a little more girth but not like soda can thick.
     
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    My wife loves the girth... She has had length and she said that was complicated and didnt feel as good as a thick one
     
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    I've never fucked a huge one, but even with an average size one, sometimes it may hurt. It depends on position, too.
     
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    I have turned down what I've guessed 12 inches, it was thick too, and not really natural looking, which is a turn off. I've also had an ex with just under 8 inches and thick, almost as thick as the top of a coke can and cut. As much as I hate to admit it because I've grown to not like the man it is connected to, he had a great package for sure, I've had longer but just under 8 is my preferred size.
     
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    My wife is like you, she said that about 7 1/2 inches and thick was percect... I dont have that length, Im about 6 1/4 inches and almost 6 inches thick... Her face winces when I slide it in and you can tell its just right and she gets really wet when I get to rocking in her
     
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    there is hope for me then hehe
     
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    Too much for me is 8-9" and or circumfrance of 5"+ roughly
     
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    why might have problems ;)
     
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    I've met some fairly large. I'd say 8-9 inches with significant girth is the max I've had. I have yet to meet one that is too big. Now I will say, the largest I've had was fun, but not for every day.