How much cum is normal?

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  1. Rupture

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    I am Mike, fairly new here and this is my first thread. Always having been extremely sexual, the amount of cum that I shoot during an orgasm has been what I consider to be normal. Women that I have been with though, always remark at how much there is and when I compare it to a typical porn shoot I usually put them to shame. When I orgasm, the first time of the day, I usually shoot 10-12 full streams. Is this normal? Do women find this attractive? Since I do cum so much and because I am so visual, incorporating it into my sex play has become a way of life...I love to see it on a woman...prefering it over her swallowing anyday. What do you guys think?
     
  2. heelfetish

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    Sounds like a lot more than I will shoot, on average. There have been times that I let off an unusually large amount, but they are few and far between. Interesting enough, the most I ever hot was during our first 'facial' attempts. It's too bad most of it missed her face and hit the wall behind the couch. :lol

    One thing I have learned about sex over the years, is that there really isn't a 'normal'. Everyone is different, and that's a good thing. There is nothing wrong with having an excess amount of cum, and like you mentioned, you have already used it to your advantage. :)

    Have fun!
     
  3. Fliteskates

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    I actually shoot enough to "put a porn star to shame" as well....but I wish I didn't

    My g/f has counted before, and I shoot 12-15 shots on avg..once she "lost count at 20"

    Before I had sex with my g/f, she always asked how much I came, and I said "too much"...she said that is so HOT!

    But I knew she would change her tune when she saw it first hand.

    The first time she saw me cum, she was laying on my hip..giving me a handjob...and when I cummed I got her in the eye..and she tried to play it off.

    I finished and looked at her, and she said "you almost put my eye out" and we started to laugh. I said " you where warned" and we both where lol.

    But she kept at it, for my sake.

    The next time, she wanted to see if she could swallow it all...so she gave me a great BJ and I cummed huge...she got up and ran into the kitchen (my bedroom is on the first floor)...but I was remodeling my kitchen and there was no sink and she threw her arms in the air and quickly she ran upstairs to spit it all out...cum dribbling everywhere..it was hysterical and we both where laughing about it until our sides hurt.

    So then she decided I should just pull out of her during sex and cum all over her and she could rub it all over her...and that would turn her on. So I was in missionary and pulled out and shot my cum from way down at her pubic bone into her hair and face...

    Now she is scared of my cumshots, she says Im "too messy"... and I can't finish in her mouth or cum on her anymore.

    I keep saying how hot she said it was, and she retorts with " I didn't know you would drown me in cum"

    It would be nice to shoot normally, believe me.
     
  4. NaughtyKnickers

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    LMAO!!! :rofl

    Heelfetish is right on. What is normal anyway?!?!

    While I think copius amounts of cum would be a turnon, and alot of fun to play with, my partner has never shot a whole lot, and that's never bothered me.
    I think it's one of those things a woman will appreciate as a bonus if it's more, but also wouldn't mourn it being average, or less.
     
  5. NaughtyKnickers

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    I can see where the huge load would be a little inconvenient for quickies, but man, it would be such a huge turn on to be covered in it any other time! There is just something about the warmth and stickiness of it, and how good it feels to smear all over myself and play with it... And watching a man come, seeing it spurt out again and again, is just tremendously exciting! I just can't imagine complaining about the excess, (.......unless there were no running water available... lol!)

    Perhaps your girl needs a cute little raincoat? ... lol ;)
     
  6. Fliteskates

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    She let me come on her doggystyle one time..I was able to control where it went since I had time to grab the goods and take aim.

    I cummed a ton on her back...and rubbed it in...she was all turned on...and then she laid on her tummy and I laid next to her and we kissed for awhile.

    Then she went to get up and she screamed OMIGOD!

    The dried cum was like someone had poured glue all over her back and let it dry.

    So I had to get some water and a towel and wipe it all off her back lol.

    I think my cum has traumitized her to be honest. She is really sexually open, but I doubt many women would love the amount of cum I shoot each day.

    Many would love it as a one night stand kind of thing perhaps...but everyday, I have my doubts.
     
  7. heelfetish

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    I really think you're being too hard on yourself. Or perhaps her comments have gotten under your skin. Try to lighten up about it. :) Similar things have happened to other couples. What's important is that you laugh about it and move on. :)
     
  8. Fliteskates

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    She and I laugh about all of our sexual bloopers.

    If I can't get it up or she gets dry, we joke about it..or when a new position doesn't go well..etc etc.

    I just don't think it is physically possible for her to swallow all of my cum without choking, and I'm sure getting that much cum in your eye and hair would be annoying as well.

    Everytime she lets me cum on her or in her mouth, something crazy happens.

    I'm sure we will try again at some point, as she will do anything I ask.

    We have done anal

    Sex in public places (one time we had sex on a rock along this hiking trail, and as we cleaned up and started walking back, another couple was literally 30 feet away..if I didn't cum so fast we would of been busted)

    We have even had sex in her parents bed when we stay up at her parents

    So she is really open to anything... so I can't be too mad about how she feels about being drown in cum.
     
  9. heelfetish

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    True enough. :) As long as you also realize that there isn't anything you can do about your volume of cum. You are who you are, there is nothing to be ashamed of. It sounds to me like you both have a very healthy sexual relationship.
     
  10. Fliteskates

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    Oh yeah there is no doubt our sexual relationship is very healthy.

    I have VERY strong PC muscles and the main benefit is I can hold off for a long time before I cum, but a side effect is I shoot cum like a rocket lol.

    So...I just put myself in her place and think of how I would feel like if I had to try and swallow the amount of cum I shoot or have it get all in my hair, eyes..oh and she says it goes up her nose to and that stings alot as well.

    I can't imagine having to swallow the amount of cum I shoot, because of how hard it comes out and the sheer volume. And she has my penis inside her mouth the whole time.

    She kept trying, and I'm giving her break for a little while.
     
  11. NaughtyKnickers

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    I can understand the not being able to keep up while swallowing thing. It's great that the two of you can laugh about it, and work with it. Sometimes those intimate challanges can be tricky and embarassing at first, but really draw a couple together when they handle it right.
     
  12. heelfetish

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    Exactly, NaughtyKnickers!

    Fliteskates, I commend you; both for your fantastic abilities, and for having the heart to care for her side of it as well. You're all right in my books. :)
     
  13. Fliteskates

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    We always try new stuff, so it is almost a given that a sense of humor is required.

    I remember we where trying this new position one time and she had to really contort herself, and she was on top of me at a 90 degree angle and she leaned back too far and hit her head on my marble night stand..and almost knocked herself out.

    After I got her some ice and rubbed her head, I told her that it would of been tuff explaning to the police and her parents that "I didn't kill her I swear, she hit her head during sex when we tried the naughty frog, you gotta believe me!!"

    Thanks man, but she is the one who was in the line of fire, all I did was the shooting :)

    She should get all of the credit.
     
  14. NaughtyKnickers

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    "Thanks man, but she is the one who was in the line of fire, all I did was the shooting :)"

    She should get all of the credit."


    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    :rofl

    Now THAT one takes the cake :lol
     
  15. Funseeker

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    I can empathize with Fliteskates. I can shoot so much, and its really awsome when the girl in question likes to be covered in it. Once she cant swallow it all, or chokes on it, then I have found that they become afraid to give head because its so much. Most girls like it, and seem to be turned on by a lot of cum, but ultimately once she becomes afraid of so much in her mouth they will avoid letting you finish orally. it's a bummer really but true.
    Also keep well hydrated otherwise it comes out like a huge wad of bubble gum.
     
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    I dont think it matters but it sounds like u cum ALOT. But I would love a guy who came that much.
     
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    That sounds great, and from the few posts I have read you sound awesome. Unfortunately, gals like you are less common than you might think.
     
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    What can i say? I luv cum lol.
     
  19. Howie_t

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    I use to ejaculate alot of cum until I had a vasectomy.Don't know what happened.One of my doctors told me that could because the tubes where the sperm comes up through is no longer connected to where it comes out at and one doctor told me that if I start drinking alot of fliuds and keep doing it,the volume of my cum will increase again.The women whom I've had sex with liked when I have alot of cum come out.
     
  20. strangeone

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    Damn, I wish I could cum a ton. I love to cum on my wifes face and always wished I could COVER it. lol