how many women like their man to

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  1. angelbaby

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    How many women here like for their man to be domineering and controlling?not just sexually,but some other times too.My honey has just started being like this and I love it.He not like other guys I have known,because they were abusive,my man now is sweet about it.he makes me extremely hot when he does.:p
     
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    I enjoy a dominant role, but every once in a while it is fun to do role reversal.
     
  3. Barbwire

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    As for me, the "domineering and controlling" has to stop once out of the bedroom.
     
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    I like the guy to be in charge in bed but thats it lol :)
     
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    Hmmm. I kind of think of myself as a tough chick, and weak-willed men who are push-overs tend to turn me off. I guess I wouldn't say that I like "domineering/controlling" men, but I do like a guy who can take charge and stand up for himself--someone very assertive. I'm also a real brat sometimes, so a guy who can say, "Ok, Bluesy, that's enough", take on a paternal role in the relationship at times is what I'm getting at, is definitely going to impress me...and get me very, very HOT. I'm reminded of the line in the Sheryl Crow song, "Are you strong enough to be my man?" That's my anthem ;) (Except for the part about lying, 'cause I'm not putting up with that shit!)
     
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    Absolutely love it!!!

    Only in the bedroom though. I love my guy to be the controlling type. I want him to tell me what to do and when. Very big turn-on for me. I love it when he is rough with me.

    Glad to know that I am not the only one.
     
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    I like a man to be strong minded and assertive but not controlling. But i do like him to be dominant in the bedroom.
     
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    i love taking charge of my woman in bed. just giving it to her hard and rough and she loves it
     
  9. Kronnie

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    How about a strong male thats soft centered ?



    But to the original poster in this thread......


    It is defently better that you have a sweet guy thats kind to you and treats you very well...


    and to mix intothat that he can be controling and dominering in a sexual way must be a dream come true for you.... :)


    And bluesy time to be uite now .....theres something far better for you to do with your oral expertese :p
     
  10. NaughtyKnickers

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    Sexually I am very aroused by confidently dominating men, but outside the bedroom, I prefer to be a team. Him contributing what a masculine role has to offer, I offering what a feminine roll has to offer, generally speaking.
    I demand respect, though. 'Feminine' does not mean 'wistful' or 'stupid'. :)