I lost my virginity over the past year so I'm pretty new to the sex thing and I haven't been lasting very long at all. When I asked people on here and elsewhere about this, I was told that you learn to last longer as you get more experience. I am wondering, how much experience does this mean? Like how many times does a guy typically have sex before learning to control it better? Also, is this referring to specifically penetration? Because I had gotten head many times before I had sex.