How many partners have you had ??

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  1. jess09

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    Okay, I want to know how many partners you girls and boys have had so I tought. So if you want to share that go on.....

    And also, are you into casual sex ???
     
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    As far as actual intercourse, I've only had 1 partner. She's my fiance now. But if you include oral sex, then I've had 2 total (including my fiance).
     
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    5...I am 24, I started when I was 15. And, yes I do believe in casual sex, but not one night stands.
     
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    I'm actually glad that the ONLY woman I've ever penetrated is my fiance. It's kind of hot to think about that. She's happy about that, too.
     
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    I have been into casual sex, and therefore won't give a total. I don't think a total number tells you much about me......
     
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    Sorry to break the trend so drastically, but in my case it's well over 100. And nationalities, I've been with over 30. And it's shocking how much women can vary! What some love, others can't stand! For example I dated 1 Dominican girl who insisted on NO touching of her genitals at all! Oral sex for her however was very welcome! Her theory was that a person's mouth and the genitals were made of the same kind of skin! Whereas the hands were a more abrasive type of skin, hence, no touching allowed!
     
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    JucyB,
    You and I are too similar! I've had more than 100 partners and probably a couple of dozen nationalities as well! I am not sure if 100 partners is good, or not, but it was an interesting experience. And you're right, the way women vary so much! Also nationalities vary as well, I put the openness of Asian girls to sexual pleasure to their non-Christian backgrounds as well as some other cultural issues. Some Western women can be equally relaxed about sex first time you get together, but it is less common in my experience.
     
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    Think I may really sound crazy here, but I lost count around 350.:uhh: I had a lot of fun from 15 to 21.
    I agree with melicious in that it doesn't really tell much about me, but is it really a measure of the person I am?
    No regrets! Had a lot of fun.:p
     
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    I agree with Mel, "numbers don't define a person", but I don't consider being in a LT relationship with a man & having a girlfriend as "casual sex"?
    I suppose I would consider it; if I didn't already have a girlfriend though.
    ~Bella
     
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    Wow that's a tuff one Different people I would have to say at least 30-40 maybe more but I didn't know we where suppose to be counting
     
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    I've had 7-8 partners. But then again I settled in my current relationship at a very young age (17 years old)
     
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    Yes, I do believe in casual sex and like Melicious will not give a number. The number of people you've had sex with does not define you but it is a part of you. All the experiences of your life shapes and molds you into the person you are or will be. The idea of counting or as I've read,"Notching your gun" or keeping score is repugnant. Will having a variable number of sexual parteners make me different, yes. Will you knowing a number change the reality of me, no.
     
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    Seven, all but one in a LTR and that one was a one night stand. I never believed in casual sex until just recently. Now I can't find it. lol
     
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    I am happy with the not too high, not too low. I am picky about them.
     
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    I too believe in casual sex but can't find it, much like Bigfoot... and UFO's... wait... this isn't the Fortean forums? Oh, well, anyway, i've only been with 3 women for actual intercourse, 5-6 overall with oral and such. Surprising since i'm only 20 and still can't find casual sex. Bloody Catholic university....
     
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    0..er..1 if you count oral sex.

    *blush* I'm quite a late bloomer. I wasn't kissed until I was 17. But that's okay. Like you guys said. It's not a number that defines us, but how those experiences shaped our lives.
     
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    Define picky, buddy. I'm picky!