How many of you regularly use lubricants?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by UtherPendragon, Jan 4, 2009.

  1. UtherPendragon

    UtherPendragon New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 17, 2007
    Messages:
    45
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Well, the title says it all, How many of you regularly use lubricants?
    I ask because occasionally my wife is a bit sore after sex.
    Would we better off using a lubricant?
    At my age I ought to know the answer to this but I don't:)
     
  2. Dreama

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    May 16, 2006
    Messages:
    3,890
    Likes Received:
    15
    Gender:
    Female
    Lubes are awesome-we use em, from time to time. So, go get a lube! :)
     
  3. igor

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jan 13, 2006
    Messages:
    4,110
    Likes Received:
    163
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Chicago area
    Absolutely use them. We prefer the plain types like Astroglide or K-Y, not the warming or fancy ones.
     
  4. cbrmale

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 26, 2006
    Messages:
    3,493
    Likes Received:
    291
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canberra
    I use a little bit of warming k-y, not too much, every time. I'm quite girthy and it helps a lot on initial penetration. My wife lubricates which is why I don't use much or else it gets too slippery and I end up not feeling a thing. If your wife is about your age she may be reaching or in menopause, which can mean less lubrication.

    Try out which type is best for you and how much to apply.
     
  5. Barbwire

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jan 20, 2007
    Messages:
    9,789
    Likes Received:
    174
    Gender:
    Female
    We have a bottle of lube that is meant for toys from the late 90's collecting dust. Quite honestly, if I'm in the mood for a toy, chances are I'm plenty slick enough already and don't need added lube.

    About the same time we got that bottle of lube, we got a free sample of anal lube. Its in very small squeeze bottle. There is about another 3 butt reamings-worth of that left.

     
  6. sarahandnick

    sarahandnick New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 5, 2009
    Messages:
    40
    Likes Received:
    0
    Definately, though to answer your question we don't need to use it. But it does make it better. As for type my girl is always looking for new ones... tingling, warming, cherry flavour, scented, thick, moisturizing etc etc!

    Go for it its good fun and will help if she is sore
     
  7. lbushwalker

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 18, 2006
    Messages:
    6,958
    Likes Received:
    5,069
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    'Stralia Mate!
    Never used to use them but on advice from a friend who raved about the benefits tried it out and..........Wow never looked back!
    These days and a number of partners later rarely go without as it adds so much more to pleasurable sensations to all parties.
    In earlier days used saliva but these days silicone based lubes hard to beat for smooth gliding silkiness.
    Pure Bliss!
     
  8. Rocket Queen

    Rocket Queen New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 18, 2008
    Messages:
    513
    Likes Received:
    4
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    In my study!
    We use it for entertainment purposes only. I have a lovely candy flavoured one that I like to use on him when I'm sucking his cock for something different.

    Normally I'm a really wet person, so if I need lube that generally means I am definitely NOT in the mood and no amount of lube is going to turn my mind on.
     
  9. Sexual Guy

    Sexual Guy New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 16, 2008
    Messages:
    184
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Lubes for ass is great!
     
  10. bigpappi

    bigpappi Member

    Joined:
    Oct 18, 2007
    Messages:
    256
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    The PHX
    for those guys that use lube. does it help delay ejaculation???
     
  11. Drakonnen

    Drakonnen Member

    Joined:
    Sep 24, 2007
    Messages:
    165
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Male
    Lube can be useful, but don't go for the fancy ones, as someone called them.

    We bought a Durex variety pack for fun to try. All I can tell you is that from trying KY warming and Durex warming, my wife and I have both been essentially burned on separate occasions down there. Its not pleasant.

    Also, the flavored ones we tried don't really taste that good, so I'd suggest avoiding them as well unless your partner just tastes terrible for some reason. Thankfully mine doesn't so I actually love the taste of my wife. :D
     
  12. Barbwire

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jan 20, 2007
    Messages:
    9,789
    Likes Received:
    174
    Gender:
    Female
    I have to agree, KY warming lube BURNS like a motherfucker! At least it did on me.
     
  13. igor

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jan 13, 2006
    Messages:
    4,110
    Likes Received:
    163
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Chicago area
    Nope. Unless you use a gallon of it and things are so slippery you can't feel anything :lol
     
  14. HardRocker

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 24, 2006
    Messages:
    5,719
    Likes Received:
    16
    Gender:
    Male
    Just plain old baby oil works for us. K-Y gets sticky while the oil stays slippery for a long time. Those of you who use condoms or toys probably should stick with the silicone stuff though.
     
  15. bigpappi

    bigpappi Member

    Joined:
    Oct 18, 2007
    Messages:
    256
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    The PHX
    well i got some astroglide today and tried it for the first time with the wifey....it was good stuff.....will definitely use again.