[Ask a Guy] How many guys take their Qs from porn

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  1. Jolay

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    I just wondering if guys who love porn use a lot of the techniques they see, plus could you quit watching it, would you quit if your girlfriend or wife asked you to do it.
     
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    I don't know,but I wish less guys would:eyes
    Porn is fun to watch,I love watching it.But some things they do are not good to do in real life.I don't think a lot of guys know that.

    A few examples: ass to mouth,anal and then back to vaginal (can give a girl a terrible infection!!),Any of that anal gaping is just ...ewww,don't even try it.
     
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    Jeeze I know what you're saying haha. Some the things I've seen in porn I'd be scared to perform on the poor girls I know. Don't want them profiling me as a sick pervert. Especially the hardcore stuff porn does. That shit will just straight scare a girl into a lawsuit...
     
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    Yeah porn is a horrible way to learn about sex unless you're aiming to be a porn actor.
     
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    I'm sorry, the first man who tries to get me into some weird porn pose get's a boot up the ass.
     
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    I agree completely, and I have actually been ranting about the same things. I wonder if people are getting a bit too careless about anal because of porn. The anus is a place that is actually crawling with microbes, so be careful! A friend of mine thought doggy style and anal was the same thing due to the amount of anal in porn.

    Also, I think the whole bukkake thing would be a major turn off for most people if they're actually doing it.

    I have relatively little hard core stuff. Most of my "porn stash" just reflects my love for women; lots of nude photos, and I personally like them to have a sweet smile on their face while posing :). I sometimes wonder if I'm a "failed womanizer", but I guess I'm just too much of a softy :lol
     
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    Sum of the hard core porn is just nasty I don't like it when there is beautiful girl with an old skinny man just grows
     
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    I wouldn't say I love porn, and no I never used it as a "play book". My wife and I watch it on occasion together and it gets her going, but not the ass to mouth shit or gapping.

    Before the kids we used to have hot tub parties, we had a tub that had seating for 8, but we've had 11 in it numerous times. I'd bring the TV out and we'd watch hockey games, movies, and once a month was PORN night. We'd put on a porno, turn the sound off, and then adlib the dialog. Made for some funny nights....and distrubed neighbors.
     
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    My fav oral position I learned watching porn. Its a 69 position with me standing up holding her I love it.
     
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    head rush!:D:lol
     
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    rofl, that's awesome
     
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    I learned a lot from watching porn, and you can learn a great deal from it, IF you know how to separate the absurd from the normal.

    Ie don't ask your lady to drink cum from her ass... or to jam your dick down her throat...

    But I have taken a number of positions and techniques and applied them in the bedroom with amazing results. There are a a lot of couple videos on the free sites that you can learn so much from, and I'm always willing to learn.

    As for the second part of the question, I gave up watching all forms of porn when my wife was pregnant, out of respect for what she was going through.

    I pretty much just got off in the shower... quick and easy cleanup. Giving it up really wasn't that hard for me, but I'm not an addict, I just watched it casually.
     
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    It was, after the kids are out of the house, we'll have to have some reunion porn nights LOL
    We told some neighbors down the street if they hear us in the tub, come on up and join in, well one night they did (not realizing it was porn night) walk up in their swim suits with a bottle of wine. She didn't look at the TV at first and starts chatting, well, he noticed immediately and was focused on the screen with a big smile. She kept talking and then glanced at him, then the screen....she faced us again and said, did I just see what I think I saw, I replied tig ole bitties getting fucked?...she slowly said yes, and I replied...well now she's taking it in the ass. She looked at the big smile on his face and went back to chatting about stuff. Priceless. He did run back to their house for more wine LOL.
     
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    I personally dislike porn but my young SO is quite fond of watching especially MFM stuff.
    She often watches it on her laptop naked in bed and after a few minutes I zone out sliding down to her pussy with my mouth and tongue which quickly makes her slam the lid down and enjoy the reality show instead ;)
     
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    So funny, Love it.
     
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    True - same here. Back when I was a youth there weren't many available texts or sources about sex. Even as a young adult the only real source I found was a magazine called "Sexology" - look it up in Google). I probably would not have even thought of oral sex if it weren't for porn, or some of the relatively common intercourse positions.
     
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    Yep nicely said.. you wont see how I really enjoy having sex in a porno.
     
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    The boyfriend and I watch porn sometimes, but we have a running commentary that mainly goes:

    "Don't to that."
    "Never do that."
    "Whoa, and that."
     
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    LOL mine with the ex husband used to be..

    "you think we can do that? .. you sit like that... oh no put your leg over here.. put your hand there.. hey move down a bit... .... yeah let's not lol"
     
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    I don't really follow anything from porn. It's just a show on camera, like a movie. I know movies are fake and shouldn't be done in the real world, so why should porn be any different.