How many guys or girls have you slept with?

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  1. yitbos

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    The last thread I posted to, I made a comment about this. So I figured I'd ask in a post of it's own. How many people have you slept with in your life?

    I've slept with probably 25 women but my wife swears she never slept with more than 100 people but she often hints that it's more when we are talking. I tease her about it and sometimes she'll say no, I've never fucked that many guys but she'll admit its very close to 100. Other times, I'll say come on, I know it's closer to 200 and she'll say no way but when I say it's over 100, she'll give me some little affirmation.

    Either way, I could care less because the experience is something I love about her. So way to go fucking 100 or 200 guys.

    What about you and your SO?
     
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    We know each other's rough numbers - both of us are in the triple digits :eek: and neither of us know an exact number

    it's more of a problem when we come across someone one of us has a past (ie, someone randomly texting or whatever), occasionally there's jealousy..
     
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    I don't know for certain, but if I multiply an average per month times the number of years, I come up with more than 100. My wife has one, me.
     
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    ive only had one other a year younger than me when i was 17, for my woman i took her virginity, besides that shes only given head to a guy thats 3 years older than us twice...but thats a different topic=)
     
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    12 for me, probably about the same for her.
     
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    15 for me. I was my wife's 16th partner. Maybe one day she will surprise me with my sixteenth to make numbers even.
     
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    Grozny, it is because your are from Oklahoma !!!! lol
    I was born and raised in Oklahoma and I have only had 7
    Husband is from Texas and had only 10ish
    Granted we hooked up very early in life, 19 years of age !! So , so only previous to 19 yrs of age these numbers are true, is that a good thing or bad thing ???? LOL
     
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    I'm in the camp that has never bothered trying to keep count. I never bothered to ask my fiancee, because to be honest, it doesn't really matter to me. The only thing that matters to us is that there is no one else that either of us is sleeping with, and the past is behind us. We feel that it's better to leave it there.:tup
     
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    Thats because I suck at life.
     
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    In the short time that I've been sexually active I've slept with 2 men and 4 women. One of the women I was in a relationship with.

    My guy has slept with 3 girls 1 guy.
     
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    Dont ever say that !! If you sucked at life, you would not be here with us !!! Smile !!!!!!
     
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    Three *blush* in the biblical sense

    six and a half in a literal sense (i've slept beside 3 women without sex involved, the half involves a woman climbing in to cuddle next to me but woke me up so techincally i didn't sleep with her)
     
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    Don't blush. My wife is the only woman I actually penetrated. Two others that was everything but and two more that like kermit says I slept with. My wife was with about the same number but I think those were all allthe way.
     
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    I slept slept with hmmm maybe about 10 people ;)

    I have a harder time sleeping next to someone the first time and it takes forever to get back into a habit of being able to sleep well alone :(
     
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    I've had full on sex with 10 including my wife. I slept with maybe 5 or 6. I have no idea how many for her. Probably not as many, maybe more.
     
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    Yeah, that one that's literal, i offered a woman I met at work who had just left her abusive bf, and no money or food or shelter. I let her stay with me (36 hours) til she could arrange a place to stay. Risky but worth it. It madea difference. It's not safe on the street. She asked me what i wanted in return. I told her "don't steal my shit"
     
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    i must be a sad one iv only slept with 4 ladys one of them being my wife, is that sad or what:ugh
     
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    remember out of that 6 and a half only three had any sex involved, don't feel bad
     
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    19 for me but may have missed one or two.
    Just for fun made up a spreadsheet (in code) with all the ones I could remember based on body description, age , hair colour, eyes and nationality then rated them out of 10 for fun, sex and companionship qualities.
    Interesting data to sort by various attributes.
    For me Asian ladies beat the rest almost every time.........except I still adore blondes!
     
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    It's not a contest.