This is actually a couple of questions.... My roommates always talk about when they bring back a girl from a party or they are with their girlfriend, they normally have sex for an hour or two. This may come off as utterly pathetic and stupid, but does this mean he's actually having penatrative intercourse for 2 hours, or he is doing foreplay and having vaginal/penatrative/whatever intercourse for 2 hours. Not sure how to word things on here but I guess here goes... Normally when I put my dick in a girl's pussy, I can only last about 15 minutes max before I'm ready to ejactulate, and no matter what I try I can't actually "pound" for more than 15 minutes. So I guess it has me begging the question, does that mean when people talk about how long they are having sex they are considering the time from beginning the first kiss and foreplay to when finally ejaculating and pulling out of a girl? I normally like foreplay and go at it for a while before sex and have no problem with pre-ejaculating but after hearing my friends have sex for an hour and I guess what I consider sex (just penatrative intercourse only) is 15 minutes I feel like there's something I'm missing on what to do. I also read a couple things saying you should only last 1 to 3 minutes which only made me more confused. So can someone please enlighten me? Probably ending a 5 month dry spell I've been on this weekend but before so I want to actually make sure I'm doing things right. Thanks.