So when I'm having sex, after about 15 minutes, I go into "my zone" as I call it and after that point, cumming isn't really a concern. That's when I amp it up a bit and all that. Sometimes this goes on for like an hour, sometimes 2. Usually between there. I usually have to have her suck me off, or stroke or whatever. Idk why, it all depends on the mood too I guess. None the less, do you ladies have a time preference? After a certain point, do you become concerned as to why the guy hasn't come yet? I try to explain it to my partner, but I feel she thinks she isn't doing her job. I don't want to hurt feelings. Help?