How long have you gone w/o sex?

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  1. RedMatrix

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    There are two questions here, actually.

    How long have you been w/o sex DURING a relationship, and OUTSIDE of a relationship.

    I am quite certain that I would win the OUTSIDE category. I haven't had a relationship in years.

    HOW about you all?
    Virgins don't count. I'm talking about non-virgin times.

    (I did a search and couldn't find a similar topic, so i started one)
     
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    Outside of a relationship: 6 months

    During a relationship: 1 month (I think)
     
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    14yrs when i was growing up
     
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    Okay, let me clarify...

    AFTER your first sexual intercourse, how long AFTER that has been your longest spell w/o sex? :D
     
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    I was in a relationship from ages 15-21 and after we broke up, I didn't have a single relationship until about 2 months ago. I just didn't have any desire to be with someone else after my first relationship ended. So that puts me not having sex for over 2 years. And boy it was a long two years! :)
     
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    Yeah, I got everyone beat. 8+ years w/o a relationship, and sex.
     
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    You are better off then some of us *coughs*
     
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    So, you are saying that at least I'm not a virgin?
     
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    I think that's what he's getting at.
     
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    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma
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    After ending a relationship with my oldest child's bio-father, until I met (and married) Thorn. That would be about 2.5 years.

    It wasn't hard, as I was concentrating on getting my life back in order after many years of drug abuse and S/O's abusive behavior.

    The hardest part was after Thorn & I were engaged... I think I started fantasizing about our wedding night. GAWD- that was a lo-o-o-o-ong, hard time. Good thing we had a short engagement. ;)
     
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    Well with my ex it was orginally 6 mo. til he raped me. I have only been with 2 guys. My ex boyfriend and Master. My ex raped me right after Master and I started dating. He was this big control freak who thought he owned me. It has been a long two years since Master and I have been together. I'm so happy with Master that I couldn't ask for a better guy. He does treat me like a queen :)
     
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    I've been without for 2 years in the current 40 plus years relationship.
     
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    Ahem ... excuse me while I rant...
    It is a my opinion that all child molesters and rapists should have one of two things happen, their choice.

    1. Death by hanging in a public place.
    2. Become a eunuch.
    [/endrant]
     
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    all my life :( :(
     
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    Within a relationship, 2 months while she had frequent yeast infection problems. My frustration therewith was what actually brought me to SF. Glad to be here still.

    Outside a relationship I went [damn it, this involves math doesn't it], ten months between the 1'st and 2'nd girls. It was a huge relief to finally copulate again. I'm three months in to however long this period will last. (She moved back to Germany :( )

    Kai, don't sweat it man. I thought I would have to buy a prostitute for a night to lose mine. If I'm properly recalling your photo, you don't have anything to worry about, it'll happen.
     
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    Longest I went with out sex was 1 year. I was going through a tough time and had no time for a girl friend. Sense I been married about 1 month.
     
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    Just some FYI- for whatever reason, I suffered frequent yeast infections while I was pregnant (Ahh, pregnancy! Gotta love it.) As long as everyone washes up after, there's no ill effects. Oral sex for her may not be in the picture but sex is still just as good.

    I couldn't use that for an excuse, it wouldn't fly. :D
     
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    Long distance "relationship"... 9 months and counting.