How long does/should sex last?

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  1. HotForHoney

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    From the first kiss that says "it's on" until it's over, how long should/does your average sex last? Your ideal sex?
     
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    For as long as it takes for you both to be completely satisfied - and I don't just mean cum.
    Can vary from 'session to session' dependent on many things.
     
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    Until you begged me to stop last time.
     
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    Sex should I hope last from when you become sexual active to well in to old age lol

    sorry lol :p
     
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    Well played Rosa
     
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    Usually fifteen minutes or less.
     
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    Has so many variables, when the last time was , excitement level, fatigue but usually 15 min to an hour
     
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    til you pass out from the orgasms
     
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    For me at least 1 hour to about 2 1/2 hours on average.
     
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    Oh man!!! I'll be right there!! My FWB doesn't last that long!!
     
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    I'd love to!! Hasn't happened yet! How bout you?? Ever pass out from orgasms?
     
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    Never long enough! Once we get going, I don't want it to end. Sleep and kids get in the way though.
     
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    First: Rosa's answer wins. :D

    Second: Typically from "It's ON!" to "Aaaaaannnnnnnd done! No, really, we're done." lasts anywhere from about 30 minutes to 3 hours. All depends on pacing, time available, energy levels, and so on. :)
     
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    Ah in my younger years, from foreplay to finish, 2-3 hrs, hour break then another 2 or so. After 26 yrs of marriage, that has dropped to 45 min to 1 1/2 hrs, turning 50 is a killer. a quickie is 20 to 40 min.
     
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    Until my partner begs me to cum
     
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    I would say between 40 minutes and an hour and a half is normal for us.
     
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    I would say we are bout the same.
     
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    I don't know,clock watching and sex don't mix for my wife and I.Our playtime lasts until we are both satisfied,that could take a few minutes or be an all day game of grabass!
     
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    As long as I can been quickies of 10 minutes to sex n foreplay that goes for hours
     
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    Usually around an hour, often times longer.
     
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