How long does it last?

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  1. LongwoodU

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    On average how long does sex last for you? How much time do you spend on foreplay? How long does the actual act last before the grand finale? Too long? Too quick? Just curious what other people are up to.

    On average I know we spend about 15 minutes or so with foreplay then around 10 to 30 minutes or so actually having sex. Sometimes I wish I could go longer but she always has multiple orgasms and a bit worn out, so I'm confident that she ia happy!
     
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    Most times, we don't do foreplay. I think with my man sex lasts something between 10 and 30 min. But that's me guessing, since we've never really measured the duration.
    The upper limit is rather an exception.
     
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    Depends on how much time we have? As little as a few minutes for a quickie all the way to several hours if we have the time. I can go for hours and prefer that.
     
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    Oh and as far as foreplay, the same applies. I like to spend at least 30-60 minutes on it before and more during and after as well.
     
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    Damn man! I'm definitely envious. I could spend forever in foreplay, touching, kissing, and eating my wifes sweet wet pussy (FUCK I love that) but when it comes down to fucking I can't last an hour like I used to..... well let me edit that, I can't spend an hour without being drunk. If I've been drinking some I can keep going and going and going and just won't cum until the morning. Back in college I'd rock those girls.... I drank a good bit back in college!
     
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    @sensless Is it good? Do you wish it was more frequent or lasted longer or is it just right?
     
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    I practice on control by edging when I masturbate and doing lots of kegel exercises. My staying power is better now than in my 20's. I can maintain an erection for hours and my ejaculations are much higher in volume and far more intense. I can have an orgasm that can last 45 seconds or more. It's so incredible and I'm 52 years old.
     
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    Damn! Teach me sensei! I'm familiar with kegal's but I just don't do them that much.... how frequently and for how long do you do them.
     
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    Sorry for the misspelled kegals.... I do them daily, sometimes 3 or 4 times a day usually for 5 or 6 15 second squeezes. I also do erect squeezes, penis stretches and jelqing exercises 4 to 5 times a week. My erections are much larger, heavier, more vascular and harder than ever before. All these practices can and will help.
     
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    It's perfect. I must just add I don't count oral as foreplay. Sometimes it's all we do, when I make him cum from that.
     
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    It is all good and the time span is unimportant as long as there is mutual pleasure :) It is beat not to worry about these things as it is the feelings behind the sex which matter most rather than the sheer mechanics ::)
     
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    If I can butt in ....
    With my friend I was lucky she was just the right fit for me - I had real tight or pretty snug which kills me quick.
    Anyway, I found that going slower and halfway in allowed me to give her good sex and I could last like I never could before.
    When going deep we worked slow and when I felt the start of tingling I would pull back a bit, sometimes stop a few seconds to prevent getting in the zone where it's too stimulated. About edging, it's about stopping before ejaculation, and when safe to continue, you go at it again, carefully to maintain control.
    The beauty of it for me is that not only it lasts longer, it gives me orgasms, not just one.
    My friend LOVED feeling me orgasm inside her when edging.
    Also edging gives a stronger finish and a bit more comes out too.
     
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    Probably about 20 minutes of kissing, sensual touch, and gradual undressing down to underwear, Mutual oral sex for 30 minutes, then I fuck his ass for a good 30 minutes in 3 or 4 different positions.
     
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    On a good night around little over an hour for all. About 20 mins of that fucking and the rest oral and other. I can be quick to the draw sometimes on the fucking so I make up for it with oral which I'm very good at..... :)
     
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    Long enough for both parties to be satiated.
     
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    Depends how long it has been since the last time LOL