After she has her period, my lgirlfriend is going to start the pill, how long does it take for the effects to kick in where it will be at that 99.98% effectiveness level. How long do i have to wait till i dont have to use a condom? (yes she has been tested and she has nothing, shes only been with 2 guys, her first boyfriend who was some fag as guy who looked all gumpy and some one nighter who got her drunk and she cheated on me with which i cant forgive her for, not matter how hard i try, but she understand that cause i asked her and she said she wanted to cause he was a nice guy which is total bullshit. it makes me so angry and i can never stop thinking about it. it makes me want to go out there and get even but i know thats wrong. is there a way to forget about it? like amnesia treatment or some hypnosis therapy or something?? i mean shes catholic and im catholic but we still have premarital sex. but i dont believe in one night stands and she doesnt either, or so she says, and i just cant understand why people do this. i mean what happend to love in our world? where sex was the ultimate form of showing your significant other that they meant the world to you, that there is that trust between you two that is harder to break then steel itself. what happened to those values? what happened to those people? i mean, would you guys out there like to hear from your girlfriend that she has been with dozens of men of all shapes and sizes, and women, would you like to hear that your man has been with dozens of women also?? i mean you find the love of your life and find out that there are others that have taken a bit of her. to know that she will remember those guys shes slept with or hes slept with for the rest of their life, no matter how insignificant they may be?) sorry i kinda had to vent about it all. i cant really trust my friends to talk about this stuff too and i cant talk to my gf about it because it concerns her and will just piss her off and make her cry and say imsorry imsorry imsorry and i wont even listen to her plea. so why not total strangers?? our world really is going down. and we wonder why stds are somewhat of an epidemic.