[Ask a Girl] How long can you stand to be pumped?

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  1. Barbwire

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    I see fellas here bragging on how they can have intercourse for hours.

    Any women out there actually like to be pumped for that long? If not, how long is best for you?

    As for me, hubby comes very fast so this question doesn't apply to my current partner but, in the past, I never liked for a guy to fuck me for more than 20 minutes or so because I'd end up dry, sore, and bored.
     
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    We usually go for about 30 minutes or so but sometimes it takes me longer to cum and he always waits for me to cum first. Honestly, I won't complain if it takes longer or not. Having him inside of me no matter what is enjoyable. Getting in different positions and changing it up helps to keep it from getting boring too, to me at least.
     
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    there are more dudes than ME talking about super long sex sessions? really?

    my partner says she prefers to keep it under 30 minutes.

    But didn't mind the multiples... but also dislikes how sore and exhausted it makes her.

    I'd be happy to do it in less than 30. Particularly if it means I get to come.
     
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    30 minutes, +/- 3 hrs. lollygagging time. :)
     
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    As far as straight "pumping" is concerned I guess 25 or so.. that really all depends on the gf tho not really me.
    My thing is to get her right then ill concentrate on myself..I need to get it through my head that sometimes she really *is cool w not getting there and wants to see me cum.
     
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    I hate being the party pooper here, but you guys do realize this is an ask a girl thread, right?
     
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    I'm pretty sure she wouldn't mind the contribution
     
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    Good point. I sure as hell can't stand to be pumped for even a second :lol
     
  9. Barbwire

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    Thanks, Rawdog, I DID really mean for only the women to answer. I want the truth from a woman's perspective, not a man's.
     
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    whoops :eyes
     
  11. Paula

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    I don't use a watch :lol

    But when it takes to long I put my finger in his ass. Asure he will cum
     
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    Time flies when you're having fun, but yes, twenty minutes sounds right for me too. Sometimes when everything is just right and it feels so good, I think, "Let's do it this way for hours." But after about fifteen minutes, I start to think about other positions I'd like to try.

    Even if we keep pumping away in the same position, we still have to keep things changing. I might tell him to go faster or slower, even if it's just for it to be different. Or we might talk dirty, or smooch and caress each other. Or I can change the position of my legs or shift my hips. That can make a big difference. We've kept it going like that for an hour, but honestly it's more fun to change positions and so on anyway.

    One more thought: I'll stay wet much longer from slow and sensual pumping than from fast, macho pumping. I do like the fast and hard kind sometimes, but that's more for a ten-minute quicky.
     
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    Good thing because I really don't think you're getting it from the guys in here.....:lol
     
  14. Barbwire

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    Exactly.
     
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    Half an hour sounds about right. If neither of us has had an orgasm at that point, we usually opt for oral....either to completion, or as just a bit of a break before we get back at it. Often we'll start out with intercourse that it is a little slower, more playful - then break for a bit of oral - then end with hard and fast sex. It varies so much - and there is exceptions for quickies and stuff - but that's the gist for us.
     
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    Won't thread Jack, but what I contribute I mean. :)
     
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    Why would I lie about how awful sex was for me?
     
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    i thought it was great to be last really long... sadly, girls i've been with don't like going real long though. i wonder if theres a perfect range...
     
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    I don't think most of us guys who go for an hour just hump for an hour. Maybe 20 minutes in, then 10 minutes of oral on each other, then back in. I think most guys know women don't want to be pounded for an hour.
     
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    Guys, it's been made clear Barb definitely only wants the women to chime in here. So let's respect that wish and stop posting alright?