How important is sex to you?

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by curiously_adventurous, Apr 10, 2015.

  1. curiously_adventurous

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    As for me, I can think of nothing as satisfying as bringing someone to a gut wrenching seizure, with acknowledgments of heavenly creatures, precursory to expletives and decrees of damnation. If, on the occasion that the celebration ends in tears of joy, then I consider it a orgasm for the both of us. I know that everyone does not consider sex to be as important as I do and I admittedly wonder sometimes if I think about it too much. I have, within the last couple of years become increasingly disappointed with the narrow minds of our society at this time in history, when the internet provides us with limitless knowledge with which to see truth so that we might be more tolerant of out differences. I hope that by joining this forum that within the coming months I will find others, especially women, who want to express themselves and their sexuality openly. I want to meet anyone who wants to feel empowered to experience more than the fantasy and intelligent enough to offer encouragement to others who seek the freedom to feel good about themselves no matter their sexual orientation or urges. I am tired of feeling alone with my fantasies. I know there must be others like me that would enjoy the freedom to be who they are.
     
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    Do as you will, as long as you do no harm... Unless it's requested; then have a safe word.
     
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    How important is sex to me?
    As much or more than anything else!
    As much as food and drink to the body, sex to it too but nurtures the soul.
    I have often said that if I could no longer have sex, would I want to live and frankly the answer is in the negative.
    Only thing that ever came close for adrenaline hit was first ever time sky diving; that I must admit was more intense than sex even.
    So when I am too old or sick for sex I will sky dive and forget the chute behind ;)

    My answer is very more basic than your explanation.
     
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    It is probably more important if you don't get it :)
     
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    Not as important as...

    Love, Health, trust, family etc but once you have these very :)
     
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    Sex is like air and money. You don't think about it much unless you aren't getting any. Then it's pretty damned important.
     
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    I love sex... And the next part of this answer may sound strange to some ... But it's the only thing in life that doesn't have a price tag on it... Almost every other thing you can experience costs money ... Out to dinner? 80.00 movies? 60.00... A weekend outta town? 400.00 ... A bike ride? Yeah that's free, if you can afford the 300.00 bicycle . There aren't many things that don't cost money to go do... Sex on the other hand is good for you, good for your relationship, it's good exercise( at least the way we do it, it is) and it doesn't cost anything... Should be America's pastime...:D
     
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    not everything can be measured as a financial buck/pound/euro there is sometimes an emotional, physical cost to be considered.
     
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    I think you missed my point.. To be more clear, I was saying that I am having tough times financially right now. so we stay home and have sex, . Rather than doing anything else. Simply because we can't afford to do anything right now. Thusly, sex is very important to us. Because its all we've got...
    It was all tongue in cheek by the way.. But somewhat true .. Lol
     
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    Sex is very important to me. I probably put to much emphasis on it in my life. I am always looking for ways to improve what few skills I have. I like reading about others experiences. I like looking at scantily clad and nude felmales. One porn site I frequent updates its website on Thursdays. Thursday is therefore my favorite day of the week! I think of it as "New Porn Thursday!" Like 12Barlues, money is pretty tight for my wife and I so sex is one of our few luxuries as a couple. That and fighting! Seems like we are always fucking or fighting. Make up sex is good too though!
     
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    Holy shit - this is the first post of yours (sans tits) that I've understood. :p
     
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    SO and I if we were to combine our personal incomes would sound totally obscene, yet we live a very simple life, care little about material things but guess what we mostly do for entertainment and pleasure?
    Yep, sex, sex and then more sex and we have been at it for 5 years!
    Therefore it goes to prove that good sex is priceless :)
     
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    Let me see... On top of the list 12BB compiled...

    Cost of a condom: (approximate) $0.75/per condom USD
    Cost of contraceptive pills: (approximate - insured/uninsured) $0 - 100/month USD
    Cost of vasectomy operation: (approximate - insured/uninsured) $0 - $2250 USD
    Cost of tubal ligation operation: (approximate - insured/uninsured) $0 - $7500 USD

    So, safer sex practices cost. Then again...

    Cost of raising a child (approximate - birth to 18) - $245,340 USD as of 2014 study by the U.S. Department of Agriculture

    Yeah, I think that D and I will be sticking to sex over expensive dates, fancy vacations, or (God forbid) raising a child...

    Besides, we have animals, houseplants, and a garden -- those are, like, the same thing as having a kid. :p
     
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    Those are just the training stages for having a kid;)
     
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    No, they're the End of the Line for us... at this point and into the foreseeable future we are both very decidedly Not Kid People.
    Being the "fun Uncle/Aunt" type figures for other people's kids -- fine. But children of our own? Nah.
    (And now I wait for a ton of people to be all like, "But you will change your minds. You don't know how wonderful the blessing of children is! You're still so young; don't say never. Blah, blah, fucking blah.")
     
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    I doubt that....
     
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    Yeah... I just wanted to say this to you since you said it to me. ;)
     
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    Childfree couples are THINKERS:

    Two Healthy Incomes No Kids Early Retirement
     
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    Thank you! Someone else who gets it. :D
     
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