I wanted to plan a treat for the man when he gets home from work tonight. He'll probably be tired, and probably have a headache, so i wanted to know how to sweetly make love to him where I'll be doing all the work. any suggestions? This includes foreplay. He mentioned he wants more loving sex, because i think i wear the pants a bit in this relationship and i tend to remove the emotion from sex. What can i do during/before sex to make it as mushy/romantic/loving and tear-inducing as possible?? The only thing i can think of is running to hug in at the door OR greeting him at the door with a ukulele solo of a song i wrote for him. (yes, I'm sickeningly cute) Baking him a home cooked meal of awesome. starting up a conversation at the end of the meal of how grateful and appreciative i am for him. Qualities about him i love, followed by mentioning physical characteristics about him that i love and kissing them, leaving his cock for last. Then going down on him for a while, running my hands lovingly over his chest... Then kissing him passionately. Then moving things forward and slowly removing my clothing... Then actually riding him, but slowly, entwining fingers...and whispering that i love him. Thats ALL the ideas i have and i would like to know what would help. Especially DURING sex that defines it from just blatant FUCKING. Maybe some good loving music (i already have a cd made up)? Candles?? I dunno how i can get my hands on flower petals..., probably wouldn't help and only cause a mess though. I'm lost for other ideas, don't tell me what i have is good or enough, because i want MORE ideas THANK YOUUUUUUUUU!