[Ask a Guy] How do you like your pooper pampered?

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  1. Barbwire

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    For the men that like anal acrobatics where the woman is doing all the work, exactly how do you like it done? Do you like a dildo or a finger best? How do you want to be penetrated? How far in? Do you like quick strokes or slow ones? Where is that spot that sends you over the edge?

    Valentine's Day is fast approaching and I want to rock the old man's world. Thanks in advance for your replies, guys.
     
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    My SO likes it touched during intercourse, just lightly stroked but no penetration (out of fear, I'd reckon, not because it won't feel good.)

    Took me a bit to get him there though. Although I'm not interested in going further with it. He's not happy with that so I'd never push it. I only started it because it could potentially have felt good for him, and it does so we have ourselves a winner. :lol
     
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    If it's his first time I suggest starting slow with a finger, and if you move to toys then a small dildo or butt plug. Perhaps this is like us men reading our female partners in reverse: stay attuned to his body language and what it tells you about how much he is enjoying it. Most people rarely verbalise a lot during sex, but body tension, relaxtion, facial expressions and so on really telll us all we need to know.
     
  4. Barbwire

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    Yeah, I know all of that, cbrmale, I was just trying to see what techniques stimulate the prostate the best as part of research and to get some pointers. Hubby and I have engaged in anal play before and he likes it, I just want to make it even better for him. ;)
     
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    Just the other night my SO and I were playing around with this scenario. (Not our first time, something we both get in the mood for every now and again.) Anyways, I started playing with his ass with my fingers at first while stroking his cock. Then I brought out my slim G vibe and started using that on him and by this time his cock starts throbbing in my hand. From there we moved to the actual cock shaped dildo. I laid on my back and held it as if it was my own while he mounted my "cock" and proceeded to ride me while I stroked him. It didn't take him long before he was squirting his cum all over me. What a turn on!
     
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    squirt---very nice...i got rock hard reading it.
     
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    Yea, um, I don't know if my input counts at all but, I wanna say something.

    Through my e perience with self anal play, I found that I like to watch porn for a while before I go for it. But with me I identify with the females in porn and fantasize what is happening to them.

    But in other ways I just get aroused and go for it. Also maybe just play games with it. I like to just rum my finger up my butt crack and then start inserting my buttplug with some anal lube. I like to just hold it in there and tease myself with fantasy play.

    I even use some nipple clamps. I then am able to insert my dildos in my ass after just a few minutes of holding my but plug in.
     
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    Thank you bigpappi, just telling what happened. It's always nice to hear I can do that to a man by words alone though.
     
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    Although it might seem gross at first, I have always loved it when my partners have licked my anus. Obviously you have to be super clean and your partner has to trust that (no probs for you and hubby CL).

    But even though it has been years since that has happened to me I still remember it fondly and vividly. Also, my wife loved it in the past when I did it to her but now...

    It was always that light, moist tickle that I guess I appreciated the most. Some wonderful shivers. :drool
     
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    I've already rimmed him, and wrote a story about it, Cook. I'm sad, you used to read all my stories, now I don't think you do. *pout*

    I quess what I'm looking for is, not how to lead up to it, but to hit exactly the right spot when I stimulate him, "milking a prostate" is what I think it's called.
     
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    I LOVE getting rimmed (and doing it as well), but fingerplay is great as well. Don't try to stretch things out too much (unless he's into it), and don't try to feel his tonsils. Keeping those in mind, he should love it :)
     
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    Wow, hot!
     
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    :drool
    Yowza....:bow