[Ask a Girl] How do you like your orgasm?

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  1. johnnyangel694u

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    Ok ladies.
    Your man or woman is going to town on your clit with their tongue or fingers. I am sure that he/she is doing whatever pushes your buttons. You can't take it anymore. You are getting close to exploding.
    The question is................
    Do you like when they go faster as orgasm approaches and stay fast until the end?
    Or.......................
     
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    I like it faster and harder at the end............and he needs to hold me down with the other hand (both if he is using his tongue), or get ready to travel with me.........I like to move and scream...........

    There is this one tiny place to the left of the top of my clit that was discovered recently.....THAT place, and my g spot are the ones! ;)
     
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    The most important thing to me is the steadiness of the action. I don't like it real fast or real hard because that just seems to make me VERY sensitive and makes it harder to actually "hit the wave." But everybody's different.

    I also like a couple of fingers to be swirled around inside. In fact, if I'm close, that will send me right over the edge.
     
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    Just like a good NASCAR racer knows how to be patient and "let the car come to him", I like it when Thorn let's me "come to him". When I am getting ready to orgasm, or into an orgasm, if I have the presence of mind at the time, I'll tell him, "Soft.... keep it soft" meaning very VERY light (almost teasingly) - and allow my body to respond through to the end. It's actually a hard practice to follow because he gets turned on when I'm O-ing, so it's a natural tendancy for him to go at it harder and faster!
     
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    I find I usually want things faster when I'm close - but if I'm patient and let him go at the same pace rather than rushing things, it's alot better aswell. "Keeps me hanging", hahah. That'd also apply to masturbation.. but I don't have the self control to keep myself at a steady pace in that case :p
     
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    You are so right. I think it's hard for guys to go softly and lightly. Most of them want to do us like they do themselves. Sometimes I can't believe how hard my DH can whack himself occasionally. I'd think that it would hurt :D I'm very much like you, I like it very light and very soft when I'm ready. It just seems to draw out into a longer, more exquisite orgasm. The harder and faster way makes me very sensitive and "touchy" although it does work eventually.
     
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    You know, Trixi - it's funny you should say that... perhaps another thread is being birthed...

    It seems the "soft and teasing tongue" makes the build-up incredible. And once it starts to explode? OMG! Keep it soft.... please!!! Let me make this last looooooong!

    After 30+ years of marriage, he's got the technique and timing down to a science!

    Gawd! I love that man! :brow
     
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    For me, it is difficult to keep it slow and soft when I feel her getting close. I just can't control myself. I feel her muscles contracting, her breathing getting heavier and her tighter grip on my cock and my tongue has a mind of it's own.:brow
     
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    I'm afraid I've always been like JohnnyAngel, but the next time I'm going to make a concerted effort to keep it slow and see how it goes. Thanks Rose and Trixi!
     
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    Don't a lot of women say that once the groove has started not to ever change what you are doing???
     
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    Yes, but I have been experimenting this week, and I found that getting myself almost there, then backing off, then doing that over and over results in an amazing explosion. I guess it just depends on the person/people and the rhythm. Typically when I start experiencing a great groove I get over the top and cannot stop!
     
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    Yeah...I definitely have to somewhat physically restrain this squirming, twisting, wiggling, grinding...damn, I'm getting hard just thinking about it...oh...where was I?

    BD
     
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    I like it fast during the build up and then I like him to hold me nice and close so we can ride the O train together.
     
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    Yes, that nice and close is great!
     
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    How do you like your orgasm?

    Is this like a steak...well done then :D
     
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    Yes, well done, but I like my steak rare!:brow
     
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    I have to agree :brow
     
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    I dunno if she likes it slow or fast during the buildup (I like to vary it, and slow down to let my own buildup taper off a bit - to make it last) but when I am about to cum, she loves to grab me and force me as deep into her as possible, wrapping her legs around me. OH YEAH! :phat She doesn't cum from penetration, by the way.
     
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    it all depends,most of the time I like it slow,but fast is great some times
     
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