How do you like to get it started?

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  1. pleasureprobe

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    How do you like to start sex the first time you have sex in a new relationship?

    How do you like the other person to start sex the first time you have sex in a new relationship?
     
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    Kissing, seeing, touching each other, discovering what gets each other satisfied. Cuddling after.
    I enjoy slow, playfulness, light mood, heavy horny sex, depends on the moment and mood
     
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    I think it depends what you are looking for. If it's a long term prospect, you should prob talk about it first. Sometimes it just happens.
     
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    I like for it to unfold as it should..the beauty and attraction of a new love, is the unknown that lies ahead. I think if you have parameters in mind , then you're missing all the good stuff that you didn't foresee .
     
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    In a perfect world it goes slow and you get to know each other first. Kissing, petting and the normal progression. That’s not how my wife, then just dating partners started. When my wife and I first started going out we did not see each other as potential mates and I didn’t even see her as anything long term. After a few dates she just outright asked if I want to fuck her, plain and simple. Oh and yes I did, and did and did! ;-)
     
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    That nearly sounds like ye married each other for the sex :eek:
     
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    No, not at all, that's just how it started. The relationship blossomed into something wonderful that has now lasted over 3 decades. Oh and the sex is still smokin hot. ;-)
     
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    In that case ye tow have something that most want and many would envy