How do you let SO you want to have fun?

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  1. HotForHoney

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    I was chatting w another member about how he should tell his SO he wanted to play.

    What have you done? Do? Want to do? Want SO to tell you?
     
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    I'm having a hard time understanding your question. Do you mean having sex with other people or having sex with your SO?
     
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    How do you say, "let's have sex" without words.

    Like, hang sexy panties by his towel. Play with yourself when he comes to bed....
     
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    Ah I figured that's what is was. I'd share my methods but they never work.
     
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    At night I work up a nice erection and leave the head peeking out of the covers.:pDuring the day my wife says my eyes change from ice blue to violet when I'm horny.Failing that a nibble on the back of the neck or sneaking a hand around to fondle her breast or buttock will get the point across!:rolleyes:
     
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    Wanna do something?
     
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    Start feeling his crotch...

    Put on porn and start playing with myself.
     
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    Presenting myself naked from the shower at the foot of our bed will result in a shave inspection/BJ.:DSometimes she'll flip round and present her ass to me for the finish.:)
     
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    She says something like: "I'm going to soak in a nice bubble bath. Wanna wash my back?" Or maybe I'll say: "Feel like doing some horizontal reading?"
    "Hey, you, (kiss), how would you like me to give you a couple of orgasms?" Maybe, "Think I could get lucky in about ten minutes?" or she: "Hey, is that for me?":D
     
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    He has a "I want to fuck you now" look, and I do a variety of things. Sometimes I dress for bed early which usually involves a tank top or cami with nothing else. Then I go about the house that way. Other times I will make it so he can see my stomach while I am walking around or sitting. He is in love with it. It can be physical too where I sit in his lap, put my hands around his neck and put my lips as close to his as I can to his making him think I am going to kiss him, but then I don't and tease him more like that until he can't stand it.
     
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    From someone who does not live with their not-really-that-significant other, it tends to be a suggestive text or a direct text that gets the message across. If we're already hanging out and the mood strikes, more often than not it starts with a kiss and/or groping.
     
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    When I first met sluttyfairy, she said if I ever "asked" for sex, the answer was no.

    God I love that woman.
     
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    Walk in the room naked, with your dick in hand and say "hey baby, you wanna have some fun?" Only make sure you have The Village People's Macho Man playing in the background, so you can give her a little dance.
     
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    Special occasion only; present her with an erection knotted with a crimson silk tie ;)
    Most other times she or I will make our needs known by the simple act of dry humping or crutch grabbing or breast snatching. There is little room for any mistaken intent :)
     
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    Has never failed to get a rise out of him
     
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    :(
     
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    I don't usually initiate - a really bad habit of mine...
    When I do, though, it's usually with teasing and flirty little pinches and grabs (always with a smile on my face and frequent eyebrow waggles). Or I come up behind, press up close and tight, hold them, run my hands over them, and whisper naughty things into their ear. :)
     
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    Honestly one of us will just blurt it out or if in bed a little fondling. My SO has always been a very direct person and is not shy about expressing herself.
     
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    We usually make a plan for it. But there's lots of times when I'll walk up behind her grab her hips pull her into me and start kissing her neck. Once I do that, there's usually no stopping what happens next.
    She's big on surprise outfits. She likes to dress in stockings garters and heels. That's always fun. The stockings usually end up tied around her wrists and the bed posts. :)
     
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    Even I couldn't resist that :D
     
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