How do you know when a girl cums?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by ZeroPoint, Nov 13, 2006.

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  1. ZeroPoint

    ZeroPoint New Member

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    You let go of your ego, tune into feeling and conecting with your partner. There is no mistaking when a woman orgasims if you get out of your own way.
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    From the down for anything signature.

    (im not 24, im 16.)

    At 16 you dont belong here kid.

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    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma Gold Member

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    Some women have perfected the art of faking an orgasm. Happens all the time. I would even go so far as to say that every man on this message board has probably fallen for the 'fake orgasm' at least once.

    Why do women fake orgasms? - probably because their partner will not relent until she 'has one', thinking that he hasn't pleased her unless she explodes.

    As has been mentioned in other threads here, some of us women do not always have an orgasm, but that doesn't mean we have not been totally satisfied with our sexual encounter. That's a really foreign idea for a guy.

    Just another example of the "Women are from Venus - Men are from Mars" idiosyncrasies. ;)
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    Havent you ever seen "When Harry met Sally"?
    From my experience, just about any girl can fake it if she wants to.
    Gave up worrying about it years ago, you do the best you can and if she gets there then she gets there,if she doesnt, dont stress...
    As Rose said, not every girl comes all the time but that doesnt mean to say she didnt have a good time anyway.;)
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    I think it's a bit wrong to fake it. I mean, if he isn't doing anything for you, why not just say it? Plus, sometimes sex is wonderful, even if you don't orgasm.
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    With you 110%, girlfriend.
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    I personally get turned on knowing that I am making my woman feel great. If she moans and tells me it feels good, then an orgasm from her isn't necessary...but I do prefer one or the other. I just want to make sure she is enjoying it ;)
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    I am pretty much tuned to concentrating on making my partner
    enjoy herself, If she cums then that is all I need to make me feel good.
    sometimes I go to long at love making and hold back so much that I litterly cant when I want to, But that is ok with me as long as she was satisfied:sf
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    Another point is...

    Woman and men don't always cum when they have an orgasm.
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    I agree as well. No need to fake it. And yes, sex IS wonderful, even if you don't orgasm. It's just that alot of guys really can't grasp that concept. They feel like they are failing.... so many women will fake it, just to keep their man happy. They aren't necessarily faking their pleasure - just faking the biological "O".
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    I can tell when my g/f has an orgasm, because her whole mouth is cold.

    After she orgasms, and if I kiss her, her mouth tastes like she has an ice cube on her lips and in her mouth.

    Her mouth only tastes like this when she cums.

    Any other guy ever notice this before?
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    Yeah, I had to make that clear when my fiance and I first started the sexual aspect of our relationship. At first, he kept thinking he wasn't a good lover, especially because he was a virgin. But, he was a VERY good one even so, and I had to convince him that even if I don't orgasm every time, I'm still enjoying myself quite a bit.
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