[Ask a Girl] How do you know he is about to cumm?

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  1. Rozenkavalier

    Rozenkavalier New Member

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    When you are sucking your lover's cock or stroking him, how do you know he is about to ejaculate? How can you tell? (Assuming he doesn't tell you)

    What do you do to slow him down and extend the pleasure?
     
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    If his penis feels like it expanding, that usually when. The best way to prolong it would probably be stopping or slowing down and waiting a few minutes than start back up and SUCK IT!! :) From my experience
     
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    i usually can tell by his facial expresion!!! like if he tense up !!!
     
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    facial expression.. usually he speeds up/thrusts harder... but most of the time he tells me (especially if he's pissed cause he's cumming sooner than he would like.. gives me the chance to request to switch positions or if im good, then he'll go ahead)
     
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    Different ways to know:
    If you hold his balls they become tighter,
    His breathing is faster, in my case anyway
    The shaft is harder and bigger, not a whole lot but there is a difference,
    The head swells,
    Some guys have precum. In my case I do early so it's not a good indicator for all guys as a whole.
    If you look at him as you do your thing his face expression,
    Also if you ask him to tell you before he ejaculates.

    The best way is not to go too fast, this way he feels the build up and BTW it's a LOT better than a sprint BJ - He can anticipate when to stop,
    building it up gives a stronger orgasm, you get to control his pleasure and you don't abuse your neck LOL, both of you will last longer at it this way.
    When he is real close the safest is to stop but keep your hand wrapped on his shaft, but no cock in the mouth. Massage his balls and pay attention to how they feel. Up to the point you stop they SHOULD be tight (happens to me and other friend who told me the same). After a few seconds you feel them come down and loosen up, plus he will enjoy the attention. Try this trick when you let his explode: tug his balls to prevent them to go tighter, but don't fight it too much if they "insist" going.
    After his first squirt let them go and gently massage them as you wrap his shaft at the base with a light squeeze, and a bit of pulling down instead of up. This increases the "pressure" on the head in makes the orgasm stronger. Works for me and sends a "charge" down the legs, lower back, sometimes all the way down the toes. Watch him have his orgasm see how much pleasure you give him. Happy BJ to you! ;-)
     
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    I can actually feel the cum coming down the pike, so to speak. His cock expands from base to head and GUSH, there's the man juice.
     
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    I love this particular thread !!!!! I love to see, hear, feel, taste my man cum
     
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    It's the noises he makes. And he knows that I like him to do a few things when he's about to cum, depending on the mood of the sex we're having. If we're going at it rough, then I like him to grunt and grab a handfull of my hair really hard. If we're being sweet, I want him to just tell me so I can do a little bit of "cock worship" (just learned this word). If he's got me tied up or restrained, he usually pulls out of me and starts rubbing himself in front of my face (which I plead with him to do more often). All are pretty solid indicators that he's about to cum.

    Now if I've got him in my mouth and I know he's about to cum, I keep my lips and tongue very soft and try to pulse them up and down his shaft. Right before he goes, I can distinctly feel that his dick swells a bit bigger and all of his abdominal muscles flex really hard. He's also got this vein in his "man-v" that is very prominant during orgasm (HOT!).
     
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    Totally agree but not your man my man Mr Bunny, it normally pulsates and throbs :p