how do you know for sure your not being filmed?

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  1. beth_deakin_uni

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    my exbf in highschool filmed us in bed and put us on a video site, and i didn't know till someone at school showed me me.
    how do you know for sure your not being filmed?
     
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    You dont...
     
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    You only go to bed with people you trust, in areas you trust. And even then, you hope you know someone.

    In other words, you don't.
     
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    what if you know them enough to be engaged or married?:}

    i moved in with my tennis coach and his brother cos they live right next to my uni.
     
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    Be careful.. VERY..
     
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    You can't ever know that your being filmed, spy cameras are so small and can be hidden anywhere. I think it really comes back to trust in your partner.
     
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    yep be sex smart.

    its like a religion - have faith in it:}
     
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    That is very true. Personally for me (putting myself in womens shoes) i'd be more concerned if it was a 1 night stand etc.
     
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    i'm ok with a one night/day stand outside {beach is ok if alone} then there won't be cameras:}
     
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    Beach is great fun, except for the sand.
     
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    and camping is really amazing fun:}
     
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    Indeed, or even better camping on the beach :)
     
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    need to ask what site did your sex tape appear on :p

    and im sure I read some place that there is a law against "ex's" posting such stuff....
     
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    I think it's true and I think any site will remove it if you tell them you had no knowledge of it being taken
     
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    as long as police don't arrest you for sexuality:}

    on redtube he put sexual acts:/
    youtube he put bikini.
    well at least he took it down + my gf uses all porn sights and said she will tell me if i'm there:}
     
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    yep sounds like it, thats nice in case i get unlucky again lol
     
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    I'm confused - do you have a boyfriend, girlfriend or both?
     
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    Just stay away from ass holes. That's all
     
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    I think she meant "GF" as in "girlfriend" as in "Friend who is a girl." I think... I'm bad at this kind of thing. Isn't that what you ladies call your friends? Your girlfriends? :confused:
     
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    oh i call female friends 'girlfriends' so not in a romance way:}
     
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