when I was younger I seemed to have a much better way with the lady's and the last 3 relationships I have been in have lasted over 1 year. I wasn't single for long in between those 3 so I have not been out looking for girls. Now I'm 22 and from the time I was in high school to being young adults I feel like I'm in the dark. I don't know how to approach, talk or act around girls my age anymore. all my girlfriends have been about 1 year younger then me and unfortunately we have never went out in a lot of big groups and mingled with people my own age ( mostly because we weren't 21 ) I just recently broke up with my last girlfriend I was with for 2 years and I'm starting to feel like I need to start meeting girls more for the future instead of just messing around with stupid pointless relationships? so my main question is how do I find out what kind of game it takes for me to get back into having choices on which girl I want to get to know? I know everyone has a different personality and different styles and looks which takes a completely different game then the other guys but I need to figure out whats comfortable to me. Most my life I have been very shy and more on the quite side. I always had the lady's wanting to hang out and thought I was cute and this and that but now I'm a lot older and haven't spent a lot of time around other girls and I'm not sure how to approach them anymore. I know the number one thing is to have confidence but that's probably what I'm lacking the most. I always end up saying something dumb or awkward and you can tell right away when the mood is killed which has now killed my confidence. This may be something that's not even a question and I need to figure out on my own but if any of you have been through this or had no game and then discovered what works best for you please throw me some advice.