How do you get after coming/cumming?

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  1. scorpio_nymph

    scorpio_nymph New Member

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    so guys get tired, we know that much. apparently so tired that in french the act of male orgasm is referred to as "la petite mort" or "the little death". there's your Orgasm Fun Fact from me for the day.
    but how do the rest of you women get after you come?
    personally, i get kinda wired and do just about the exact opposite of falling asleep. i'll be all over the guy, kissing and licking 'til he's ready to go at it again.
    how do you act after orgasm?
     
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    interesting question. you'r right most men just "die" after sex but women tend to have more variable experiences, so it would be interesting to read about.
     
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    That all depends on if it's the first time I come or the third or fourth. After my first orgasm I'm pretty hyped up and ready for more....by the third or fourth, even if they are spaced out throughout the day, I'm pretty mellow and ready for sleep.
     
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    The gf is same as you, scorpio. But eventually she relents and lets me sleep. Normally I'll wake up ready to go again though, so it works out alright for her.
     
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    well i would guess that the orgasm itself doesn't put a man to sleep, its the process to get there that is the tiresome procedure ;)


    after masturbation i'm usually not tired at all.
     
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    I get pretty wired too.....I just can't seem to calm down!
     
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    I'm wired when i'm horny :D
     
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    I find that it is the orgasm itself. I often use masturbation as a form of sleeping pill. If I'm having trouble getting to sleep a quick jerk off will send me straight there.

    - sorry to hijack
     
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    you too huh? :lol Whenever i;m feeling restless I usually do a quick jerk to get me back to sleep. That said, adrenaline keeps me going during sex.
     
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    My gf laughs because I get pretty wired after, not tired at all.
     
  11. Kronnie

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    Not every male feels tired and crashes after sex....
    I guess some do .
    but it’s usually down to a chemical that is released into the brain after sex.

     
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    If she will lay her head on my chest and let me pet her and relax I will be happy to liven up but I NEED about 5 minutes bad.
     
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    TIRED?? Pshaw, it may take me a second to be ready to go again, but I'm closer to hyper after cumming than sleepy.
     
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    Male orgasm usually releases chemicals that make men tired, but there are ways of coming without this problem, by taking a long time to move from the plateau phase to the peak. This is an advantage for guys who can control their sexual arousal.

    When I come and feel tired afterwards, I just cuddle up to my wife. Our post-coital cuddling might even be the best part of sex.
     
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    I remember reading somewhere that a chemical is released in the brain by men and women. For the women, the primary reason being it's conducive to conception. More efficient for sperm to reach the egg. Or I could be spinning the biggest pile of crap...
     
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    Orgasm makes me all hyper and stuff...MOST of the time ;)
     
  17. Fliteskates

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    I never get tired after I have cummed.. but the problem is my g/f does... she will roll over and lay there.

    I will try to kiss her and get her back in the mood... but she just lays there like a stone.

    So I know how women feel when their man passes out right after sex.... it can be pretty annoying.
     
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    I have to lie there for a few minutes and regroup. It's like being paralyzed...but in a good way :drool
     
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    Depending on the circumstances, I am either totally spent physically and emotionally, or ready for another round or two. If my partner starts licking me and sucking me while I am still semi-hard, I get hard again easily. This makes for some exceptional multiple orgasms.:)
     
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    Usually I'm comfortably satisfied but ready to go again very shortly. However, there have been a few times where I was so absolutely blown away by the orgasm that I was left weak in the knees and in a state of complete bliss.