[Ask a Girl] How do women feel about bisexual men and MMF threesomes?

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  1. young_gun_91

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    We all know that society favors lesbians over gay men. Lipstick lesbians are an easy way to score TV ratings, movie ticket sales and gain plenty of publicity. While butch lesbians certainly stir up much less positive interest, I'd say they still have it easier than gay men, who continue to be the butt of countless homophobic jokes. This is probably the result of most straight men seeing being gay as un-manly, while women don't see lesbians as any less of women.

    These attitudes can be easily applied to bisexuality as well. Women being bi is sexy, trendy and progressive. You could say it's downright cool. Men being bisexual is highly frowned upon by most straight men, and is seen as very non-masculine. But how do women feel about it? Would you date a bi guy? We all know that guys love the idea of having a bisexual girlfriend, but does it work the other way around?

    Also, how do you ladies feel about a threesome with two guys? Do you enjoy the thoughts of two guys to kiss, two cocks to do your thing with and two orgasms to deal with? Thanks for any thoughts or opinions you can offer on the subjects!
     
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    Threesome w two guys sounds fun but idt I'd do well w a bi guy. It's enough stress trying to be better looking than other girls but w a bi guy you gotta be better than other girls and guys in one way or another. That's too much to deal w. If he left me for a guy, I'd feel even less womanly than if he left me for a girl. That's sucky.
    buuuut...bi guys are a blast to shop w and talk to sooo...
     
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    What about bi guys who only date women, though? Just like a lot of women only like other women for threesomes/fooling around, you gotta remember that there are a lot of guys the same way.
     
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    Well I dont fall into that category. I dont like sharing a guy w another woman. Lol. But I dont see how a bi man only dates women. But its just my opinion, not all women's opinion, so no need to take it too seriously.
     
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    Oh yeah, I understand where you're coming from. :) It's nice to get a woman's opinion on this one way or another.
     
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    Ah im a bi married guy that has only dated women my whole life. With men its only physical. with women its everything!!
     
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    It turns me off that he could like men while he is having sex with me, my attraction to the opposite sex is based on masculinity and the natural animalistic sexual urges of mating and breeding a male has with a female. What attracts me is strength, physically, characteristically, mentally, his masculine sexual interests, it makes me feel feminine and like a lady, that he is into women and everything sexual about the female body.
    Straight men have nothing but sexual interests in women and can fully appreciate the whole thing.

    I've dated tons of bisexual men before, also had sex with gay men before they came out of the closet and although it can be fun at times, there was nothing really fantastic about it, because in the end they were never really into it, not as much as straight men are, they lack the passion, they lack the animalistic urge of mating with the opposite sex, they always need more to fulfill them sexually, in the end they always think of dick, because plain old pussy isn't ever enough, now they want to have sex with other men, or have you rape them with a strap on or have a MMF thing. Even if that isn't the case, nothing can compare to two people being fully attracted to each other in every way.

    I don't want to hear about how he likes sucking other guys dicks and how i cannot offer him that, I have tried to just go along with it in the past, and finally over the years I just decided to not go along with things I didn't like just because I felt I had to please everyone. But is that supposed to turn me on? Because last time I checked, that is supposed to be my job and I don't really like when the roles are switched, it just turns me off and is kind of disturbing to think of. I like to imagine myself being fucked in the ass, but I don't imagine my man fucking a dude in the ass, it's just gross. I also wouldn't imagine him fucking anyone else in the ass period. That's just wrong and trespassing on all loyalty territories. If I wouldn't have a FFM group sex with him and wouldn't share, I certainly wouldn't have a MMF one. That doesn't turn me off, it just makes me unable to love him and view the situation as anything other than lust, and in that case I can very well easily leave him for whatever else comes along to soothe my lust.

    Correcting your prior statements:

    Bisexuality is the attraction to both genders, physically, sexual desire, romantic love, and emotional attraction. Bisexuals can be attracted to both genders and that attraction does not just stop at physical attraction.

    Maybe you are talking about women who just pretend to be bisexual to get guys off. Bisexual women can develop relationships with females too, and they don't just have sex with other women to get off (unless they want to) but if you think it stops there, then man you have something else coming. If I had a penny for everytime men have allowed their bisexual girlfriends to experiment with other girls and then find out later their gf has left them for pussy, I'd be rich. And it never ceases to amaze me how many men are stupid enough to think it would be impossible for her to become emotionally attracted to another woman. The same risk can happen if you are straight and fucking other people. If a bisexual person chooses to only date one gender then that is their own choice.

    Bisexuality is not a bragging right used to score more ass. It is simply an attraction to both genders. You aren't talking about bisexuality, you are talking about the cuckold cheating fetish and you are just using bisexuality as a choice as if you can't make up your mind on what it is you want.
    Being bisexual doesn't give you the right to be a promiscuous cheating whore and it gives all the rest a bad name. When you are bisexual you make the decision on what you want, just the same as straight people do.

    A straight person can be attracted to the opposite sex. But that doesn't mean they have to go have sex with all members of the opposite sex because they are afraid they are missing out on something when they are with their partner.

    A pansexual can be attracted to all people, but that doesn't mean they have to go out and have sex with all people, they are perfectly capable of having a relationship with one person and one person only.

    I don't understand this shit though. If you loved someone why would you have to fuck someone else?
     
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    Just a guy's 2cents here. Porn never really shows any good MMF scenes. Either you see the two guys so homophobic that you see them constantly arching their bodies, as to not have any contact with the other male at all. Or, it's just two gay guys tolerating a woman being part of the scene. Many bi and bi curious men are neither interested in giving, or receiving M2M anal. And quite frankly, that puts me off an otherwise quite hot MMF bi scene.

    xx
     
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    Who says that a bisexual man can't "appreciate" sex with a woman just as much, if not more than a straight man can?

    But for some people, it does.

    I was never talking about the cuckold cheating fetish; that's an entirely different topic and I don't know how you got that out of anything I said. I was talking about bisexuality the entire time. I never said being bi gave someone the right to be a "promiscuous cheating whore," because I don't consider a threesome to be cheating.

    I never said that they did. If you don't like bisexual men, that's fine. If you're against threesomes and being promiscuous, that's fine too. But I don't see your need to "correct" me when I didn't say anything wrong. If anything, you're completely missing the points I've been trying to make and the answers I've been trying to find.