A couple years ago I came to the decision that there is nothing wrong about a persons sexuality, what turns them on, what they do to get off so long as a person isn't forced against their will or drugged against their will. Recently then, I've been wondering, why do certain things turn us on? Individually, we all seem to have a variety of different turn-ons that usually another person won't have completely. I for example have this love of eating out, even though Iwas raised around people who hated it, thought it was disgusting, etc... I know of so many people who don't like it, who think it's repulsive, who'd only do it if their girlfriend wanted it, etc, but I love the idea honestly more then getting a blowjob or fucking someone. However, I never one day just said "I'ma get turned on by eating out of a pussy", it's simply something that's a part of me... Which is what confuses me. How do we develop our turnons?