Well its been a while since I've done much of anything, almost a year since I've even had sex or come close to even having it. I'm nervous and I feel like I've been trying too hard (to the point where I end up just stopping midway or changing the subject or canceling dates before they even start, etc.). I was with this guy before and I know him pretty well, but we haven't seen eachother in years, so it kind of feels like we are starting all over. I feel like I haven't done it in decades its been so long even though its only a year. I really want to do it, and I can't find a way to get things started. I know he wants to, and I'm sure he has an idea want to have sex as well, but I think I'm having a hard time just getting the right mood without being nervous or anything. I keep picturing all those awful things that happened in the 40 Year Old Virgin and I just dont want it to be a disaster like that. I know they say its like riding a bike, but honestly I haven't found it as easy. Can somebody drop a few suggestions, anything I could do without exactly throwing myself at him? I have invited him over, I am guessing sometime tomorrow or the day after (or both) and besides dressing the part (thats one thing I'm good at) I'm not really sure what else to do.