I'm a 22 year old virgin with a relentless sex drive. I masturbate a lot, at least twice a day/night and I can't get it off my mind. My orgasms are always intense but never enough. I just feel like I'm missing the full experience. I'm worried that when I eventually start having sex I won't be able to connect with my partner... because I'm so used to going solo. The main thing that's stopped me is the fact I have Asperger's Syndrome (high functioning autism) which means I find it hard understanding & interacting with people. This has kind of contributed to me never being in a serious relationship. The one 'relationship' I have been in only lasted 2 weeks and included my first kiss & BJ... He didn't respect me so I ended it.... maybe too prematurely. I am just so fed up of 1. being single and 2. being a virgin when sex/orgasms is the one thing that makes me intensely happy. So how do I get started? I don't see virginity as special - it's the best that counts not the first - so I don't care much for saving myself. I just want the guy to have a high sex drive, be private (not tell everyone) & be respectful but I'm not used to initiating sex! I'm giid at flirting & teasing but going further is an obstacle. Any tips? Also, I don't want them to know I'm a virgin... because then they'll just sleep with me for that. Thanks!