My b/f and I used to have sex all the time but now it has kinda just died down. He is constantly bugging me about anal sex and I just don't understand that. I think that it is disgusting and can't understand why he is so obsessed with it. It does absolutely nothing for me at all and it hurts like hell. (probably all the porn he has been looking at online) There's not really any kissing or foreplay anymore either. It's like he just concentrates on himself and doesn't even try to get me off. Then he rolls over and goes to bed. No cuddling, no nothing....???? I just want to know what his problem is and what I can do to spice things up and make him more interested in me? And what is with the anal sex obsession? Why do guys like that so much if it does nothing for the girl?