How do I spice things up?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by shorty, May 7, 2006.

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  1. shorty

    shorty New Member

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    My b/f and I used to have sex all the time but now it has kinda just died down. He is constantly bugging me about anal sex and I just don't understand that. I think that it is disgusting and can't understand why he is so obsessed with it. It does absolutely nothing for me at all and it hurts like hell. (probably all the porn he has been looking at online)
    There's not really any kissing or foreplay anymore either. It's like he just concentrates on himself and doesn't even try to get me off. Then he rolls over and goes to bed. No cuddling, no nothing....???? I just want to know what his problem is and what I can do to spice things up and make him more interested in me? And what is with the anal sex obsession? Why do guys like that so much if it does nothing for the girl?
     
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    How about toys? Toys are great! Try thinking of a sexual fantasy that he may have told you in the past, like getting head while driving or something like that... While out for dinner one night slide a hand under the table (Make sure there is a table cloth hiding what you are doing) And get him nice and hard, then stop:phat Tease him and then have your way with him when you get home:D
     
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    Oh believe me, we have tried toys but he doesn't seem to like that. I always try to get him to go to the sex stores with me but he says he doesn't want to go. And his fantasy involves a virgin so that really doesn't help me at all. But thanks for the advice.
     
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    If he told you himself that he wants to try anal sex than why are you asking us what you can do to spice things up? I think the best thing you can do is just try it with him because its obviously a fantasy of his.
     
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    Probably a dumb question but have you just considered laying in bed with him and casually talking about it? My girlfriend did that to me once, saying the longer I waited to go down on her the better. It was just a subtle hint that I picked up on, and things got better. :brow
     
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