How do i go about finding a Mistress

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by max, Feb 10, 2007.

  1. max

    max New Member

    Joined:
    Feb 5, 2007
    Messages:
    5
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    nj
    Hi, i am new to this forum and have been trying to find a master/ mistress in NJ... I have no idea how to go about finding one.. i am 18 and looking to get into the lifestyle.

    anyone know anyway i can go about finding one?
    thanks
     
  2. Kronnie

    Kronnie Banned

    Joined:
    Feb 8, 2007
    Messages:
    4,740
    Likes Received:
    7
    Alt.com may be a place to try.
    Just an idea
     
  3. max

    max New Member

    Joined:
    Feb 5, 2007
    Messages:
    5
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    nj
    already did... nothing!
     
  4. pirouette

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    May 24, 2006
    Messages:
    2,463
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Upstate New York
    There are afew ways to find them. If you're close to Manhattan this is an easy question to answer. If not, you need to do some research in your area. Are there any local bdsm/fetish societies? Does the local porn shop carry a publication (that might have them advertised in the personals).
     
  5. max

    max New Member

    Joined:
    Feb 5, 2007
    Messages:
    5
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    nj
    i have no idea.. i was hoping to find one online.
     
  6. goldsounds

    goldsounds New Member

    Joined:
    Feb 10, 2007
    Messages:
    13
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Japan
    just start going to clubs and meeting REAL people instead of online. You'll find a much better fit.
     
  7. goldsounds

    goldsounds New Member

    Joined:
    Feb 10, 2007
    Messages:
    13
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Japan
    Oh...and just be yourself I guess. It's important to find someone that "fits" your personality
     
  8. max

    max New Member

    Joined:
    Feb 5, 2007
    Messages:
    5
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    nj
    thanks for all the help
     
  9. Kronnie

    Kronnie Banned

    Joined:
    Feb 8, 2007
    Messages:
    4,740
    Likes Received:
    7
  10. sexysixpack

    sexysixpack New Member

    Joined:
    Feb 6, 2007
    Messages:
    37
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    I am very close to manhattan and am also interested in finding a mistress. whats the easy answer? too bad you arnt available:( hehe
     
  11. pirouette

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    May 24, 2006
    Messages:
    2,463
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Upstate New York
    Investigate the many local dungeons. You could go to your local porn shop and pick up a copy of skin two, vault magazine or any other major fetish mag. They have listings for the reputable masters, mistresses and dungeons in Manhattan. :)
     
  12. SexyScorp

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jan 20, 2007
    Messages:
    2,778
    Likes Received:
    18
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    ireland
    http://openadultdirectory.com/bdsm/NJ/

    Is this any good to you?

    If you want more....just go into google and type mistress new jersey (or new york or wherever you be) and see what comes up...haha..

    Let us know you guys get on...I am very interested!!!!
     
  13. pirouette

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    May 24, 2006
    Messages:
    2,463
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Upstate New York
    Wow, Mistress Rhiannon and Mistress Flame are still working! awesome!
     
  14. SexyScorp

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jan 20, 2007
    Messages:
    2,778
    Likes Received:
    18
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    ireland
    I looked at their pics pirouette and one of em scared the shit out of ME...and I aint easily scared girl

    lol!
     
  15. max

    max New Member

    Joined:
    Feb 5, 2007
    Messages:
    5
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    nj
    still no luck