How Do I Get Rougher

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  1. man40351

    man40351 New Member

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    I could type a novel here, but I will make it concise. I need help.

    Things that are pertinent.

    1.) My wife seemingly can't get off. We've tried.
    2.) I am decently endowed at about 7 1/2
    3.) My wife and I talk openly and are sexually open

    She wants it rough. So rough, that no matter how hard I go, I she wants more. I cramp up, and even exert myself to the point that my erection suffers trying to go hard. Lasting is not an issue. What do I do. I know her last bf was rather large - and my biggest concern is that he had more to work with than me and I simply can't fill her as well as he did. She ensures me this isnt the case, but we know how ladies are. So - how do I make it as rough as she wants it. I want her to cum, and I think this is the route to go.
     
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    Rough sex is fun, flat out.... but it doesn't usually make me cum... maybe you need to slow down...go back to the basics, and don't forget LOTS OF FOREPLAY
     
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    While it'd be great to have lots of foreplay...I wonder if maybe try to check out which sex positions would be most relaxing and sensitive to both of you. Like perhaps cowgirl position where she can have all the control of riding on your and finger her clitoris at the same time.

    Another thing is kegel exercise. It is to regain pelvic floor muscle strength. Although it is used mainly for pregnant women or those who have given birth, it is proved to increase sex gratification. Wonder if it might help making her more sensitive to the penetration. Here is a website with info about it. http://www.natural-woman.com/kegel.htm

    One thing for sure, no matter what, stay relax. Stress can affect the performance a great deal. ;)
     
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    watch porn. use your fingers, go to her g-spot and go as rough as possible until she squirts (if she can, but most probably she can) and talk really dirty. and then you got it!

    really, try the weirdest things. diversity rules!


    :spank :bsdm

    what I mean is not just thrust into her as hard as possible (just assuming). go beyond. spank, talk dirty, rape her (fun way, not really rape her), be a cave man!
     
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    I have the solution for ya man. Send her to my house. Me and my 3 inch winky will use her to the point of no return!

    octanerock.com <--check it out!
     
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    I agree with Spanish.
    Liking rough sex isn't just having the intercourse itself.You will cramp up and get tired and probably bored.You should incorporate maybe a little porn,kinky fore-play,naughty talk.As long as you know your limitations...a spank,playful hair pulling,grabbing...just for starters(then you guys decide if you want more or less).Don't be afraid to experiment.

    Personally,I like it rough,but in a "playful" way. I get better fulfilled when he "shows me who boss":lol .It's more satiating for the both of us.It turns it into a mental and physical thing.A very good thing:) .We can and do go at it for hours.It keeps my niagra falls flowing.LOL.And him coming back for more.Never a dull moment.

    To each his own,right??
    Good luck.
     
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