How do i get over addiction to big boobs?

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    coolinferno84 New Member

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    I was spoiled in my previous relationship. My ex was somewhat thin and had (natural) 32 DDD's! Before dating her, I was fine. Now, it's like the only types of girls I look for need to have huge boobs as well as a good personality. Call me shallow, call me a jerk, whatever. I am trying to improve myself and not be so shallow. What can I do to not be so addicted to big boobs??? Should I not look at porn anymore? because when I try to look at different types of porn, that doesn't really work, I just eventually see someone with big boobs and am immediately drawn towards that.
    As for someone I date, personality is huge to me, and after being engaged to the girl, I definitely know now that I need to be picky with personality as well. I just want to get over this addiction to big boobs somehow because I know most girls out there don't have big boobs, and the girls that do that I meet are not what I am looking for personality-wise. What should I do????
     
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    If you're like me, eventually you'll meet someone whom you will feel you have to get to know. Her boob size will be irrelevant. It takes time to get over exes. No one seems to "measure up" (no pun intended) for a while. As time goes by you will meet other women with average or small chests that still interest you. Give me a flat chested woman with a great heart and a good brain over a big boobed air head who is hung up on herself anytime. Not that I'm an expert, but I feel the only way to have a successful relationship is to accept her as she is. Besides, nowadays any girl can have big boobs if she wants to.
     
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    Good point. After being engaged, I feel like that any girl I date now must have all the qualities I look for in someone I would potentially marry. I never want to experience what I went through the past 4 years ever again. Yes it was fun, but ultimately it screwed me, and now I regret it happening. But I guess you always learn from the past. This time, I learned that I would never date someone that didn't have many interests in common with me, and that I would never date someone that has anger problems.
    Yeah nowadays girls can get boobs whenever they want, but let me put it this way...the ones my ex had were perfect, and I will never see better natural boobs than hers, but then again, that will change for her over time as she gets older. I just wish I didn't care so much...
     
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    lol I'm sure theres a big boobed girl out there with a great personality =] I'm a 38J so your ex is tiny compared to me... & they are real. Porn is for fantasy's so you've allowed to watch it all you like and in whatever catagory you like =]

    I'm assuming you do get attracted to the girls face... coz you could start from there and get to know her and eventually the boobs shouldn't matter as much... alternatively, you could just get to know every big boobed girl... I'm sure theres one out there for you ^_^

    If you've recently broken up with someone then you will need some time to yourself... I got out of a 7 month relationship and needed a whole year to myself, in the time I fancied no-one... so it all depends on the person, take your time, get to know yourself and someone will just pop out of the woodwork eventually =]
     
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    I used to be a "boob" guy, really obsessed, but i met my current GF who is an A cup with a fantastic athletic body and i couldn't help but fall for her.
    The connection we have is far stronger than any superficial need either of us had, if you asked both of us at the beginning what our "ideal" partner would look like neither would really describe each other but chemistry does wonderful things and i can promise you the emotional connection i have with her and sexual chemistry i have with her is simply mind blowing.....
    I absolutely love her lean small bust body, i love her breasts and I couldn't imagine being with anyone else regardless of Bra size....
    open you mind and let yourself go a bit... you might surprise yourself who comes onto the radar...
     
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    Damn, 38J, those must be awesome, haha.
    Anyway, I mean I used to be physically attracted to most women out there, but that changed. I am trying to go back into that state of mind somehow, so I am going to try all possible solutions. I may cut out porn for good. Or I may just try to find an average girl that is willing to get implants, but they aren't natural...haha.
    As for meeting big boobed girls... I have met A LOT. They all are not compatible with me, or aren't interested. I'm a little weird too, I want the girl to be physically attracted to me, I am thin for a guy, but can definitely sexually satisfy women. I just wish there were more women out there that liked my body type. It's hard, it's not a one-way street. There has to be attraction both ways, and I haven't been able to find that. I think that if I try to date other types of women, I would have a better chance finding someone that I am compatible with, but I would have definitely have to get over this addiction somehow, or else sex is not going to happen, lol. That's just how I am, unfortunately.
     
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    I've been a breast man since I have erections. Nothing has changed. There are great women and not so great women--that come in all sizes. If you are going to be turned on by large breasts--then own it and live it. It does not mean you can't be with someone else; see where it goes.

    Chances are you will find that great gal that is intelligent, kind and well endowed--they are out there. In the mean time, make sure you get to know the person first.
     
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    I used to think that was all I wanted for boob size, then I got to enjoy small. Less grab, less to suck and kiss, but lovely.

    I can suggest you meet someone you really like, and do not limit your choice to big boobs, or maybe you limit your encounter(s) with small ones.
    Appreciate her for who she is, and and for what she has in the cups.
    Take the time to enjoy them to find out if this is for you, or that your mind is stuck on big forever. just like some women who want nothing but a big penis.
     
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    I think every man likes big boobs,you don't need to go over it.Actually you can try to date someone with beautiful face but not big boobs.
     
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    take your time in finding the right girl, when she comes, whatever the size of her boobs is, it just doesnt matter.. all you wanted to do is just be with her :)
     
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    I LOVE big boobs, I think most men do. But you'll eventually meet a girl that her boob size won't matter to you. In the meantime get some monsters bouncing in your face my friend. Lord knows I did in my past and LOVED every minute of it!
     
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    I think for you, you are not shallow at all but had a connection or a bond with this lady and cared about everything she was in shape and size. Being attracted to breast size or shape is what you look for in a woman because you were happy during that relationship.

    As for me, my ex wife had little perky tits and an amazing shaped ass, and now I actually enjoy a larger breast shape (natural - not implants) although she was petite, some of the woman I have dated had a little more meat on them..but not BBW, and not to shallow I do take care of myself and feel the person I am with should do the same.

    As we all hear...Height proportion to Weight ... I actually accept that more and more each day and feel it is due to maturing and becoming wiser with age, and never settle for less than because we owe that to ourselves.

    These are my thoughts
     
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    i dont think you do, everyone is different, im a boob guy someone else could be a leg man or an ass man its just how we are
     
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    Also your easiest solution is to just find a gf/wife with big boobs and then you'll be in love and also have big round boobs bouncing in your face for years to come hopefully.
     
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    My husband was always a thin body, small tit and round ass man. I have a billboard ass (flat and wide) so nothing spectacular for him to marvel at. I am also a BBW with 42G's so I am completely not what he was attracted to in the past. We have been together for 11 years so I know he is happy and loves everything about me and my assets.

    Find the right girl and everything else will happen as it should!