How do i get my gf to watch porn?

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    Hi i am in a relationship for over 4 years now. We have sex regularly, she likes fingerin and fisting. But whenever i ask her to watch porn together it is always a no. Any females that can help with this? How did you start watching porn?
     
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    Yep sit her down, shakle her wrists and ankles, duct tape her forehead to the back of a high chair, stuff a soft rubber ball in her mouth and put on the show!
    Never fails to work :)
    Of course she may not appreciate it much being kidnapped and forced into an act she would not normally allow but then again kinky is all the rage these days!
     
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    Don't forget to tape the eye lids open...lol
     
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    Did she say why she doesn't want too?
    Maybe that how you need to start. Find out why she doesn't want too and work from there. It's had to advice when you don't know what the issue is.
     
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    Hi sweet :) thanks for your reply. When i asked her she always said she does not like to see others fucking. Thats my complete opposite as i would be very open to do swinging not only watch porn. I was thinking of starting her with porn but shes too hard headed. Any word of advise? How did you start? Maybe for females its different than males? If you prefer you may pm dw :)
     
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    I started watching porn because I heard it was ridiculous and unrealistic. As odd as it might sound, I watched some porn to see if it would show me what not to do. Later on, I saw some gay male porn. I like it.
     
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    Ah, the hidden agenda. You want to get her into swinging. That's why she's resisting. It isn't the porn itself, it's how you want to use it. This is a relationship issue. Pressuring her to swing might turn out to sabotage your four-year relationship with her. You need to decide how important swinging is to you. Is it important enough that you would leave your relationship? If not, then don't risk the relationship for it.
     
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    What actually made you like it? And how often are you actually watching? Does your partner react in some way?
     
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    I never mentioned any swinging to her or even tried watching with her. I only mentioned watching ( never during sex otherwise she'd stop). Thats how hard she is. She is also difficult with fore play. I get bjs but there is no such thing as cum on her or in her mouth.
     
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    The boyfriend doesn't have a lot of patience with porn. We do sometimes watch a few minutes to mock it and yell at the screen, "You're doing it wrong!"
     
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    What I'm hearing is resentment about several aspects of your sexual relationship that really aren't about porn.
     
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    Thinking about it maybe youre right. Do you have a suggestion as to how i can open her mind to a more active and fun sexual experience?
     
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    Well, labeling her hard-headed and difficult isn't going to do it. It makes you sound selfish. I'm guessing that I'm not the only woman here who is cringing at some of your posts so far. Step one would be to ask her what she would find more active and fun. Show her that you're open to her mind. It's a little repair work that you need to do.
     
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    As usual, Meee is right on the money.

    Okay--If you have a woman that allows fisting?
    She IS open minded, dude.
    Chill.

    Why do you even care if she watches it? I don't like it either. I very much prefer well written erotica.
     
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    Thanks
    Hello lizzie. Thanks for yor reply. I wanted advise to get her to watch porn so that we enhance our sexual relationship. For instance do you use toys? She would never allow that either.
     
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    Love toys...but pressuring her to do something she isn't comfortable with? Never a good idea...
     
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    Can i pm you?
     
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    May I suggest enhancing your sexual life by exploring the things she likes to do. Ask her if there are any fantasies she has. Ask her questions and listen to her answers. Then explore those areas.
     
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    Not doing PMs.
    This is anonymous....just ask away in this forum.