How do I become more dominant?

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  1. Animularisen

    Animularisen New Member

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    I'm a very submissive person in bed & today my boyfriend wanted me to tie him up (i also have an overwelming desire to rape him (without that sounding bad)) I did, I tied his wrists up and blind folded him, licked sause of his belly and such and teased him but I suddenly either got bored or aware of what i was doing and sorta went back into my shy shell and untied him which he then tied me up.
    i just feel i could of done more...

    Can anyone give me more tips on what to do to someone when they are tied up?
    So I don't get stuck and it goes on for longer?
    Anything fun to buy?:uhh:
     
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    I'm like you, in that I can do the dominant thiing for a short spell, but my nature is very submissive (in bed, anyway.. :lol ) and i think I would run out of unique ideas, and feel self-conscious.

    I look forward to the posts to this thread, to learn something as well. :tup
     
  3. Animularisen

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    Ooooo... today i felt like I wanted to take over, just because the rise in errrm hornyess? rose to a unbareable amount... he liked the way i rough handed him and put him where i wanted him... but other then that its only lasts 1/2 hour max.
     
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    Make him do you. When you are getting bored put your crotch in his face and make him lick whatever his tongue can reach, you won't get bored that way ;-)
     
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    Ooo sounds exciting!
     
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    Anything else people?
     
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    Tread on him with your high heel

    Command him to do as you wish!!!

    Tell him "DONT MOVE"

    Make him crawl across the floor to
    you on all fours then put your foot
    on his shoulder and push hin away
    until you are ready to have him.....

    Taunt, Tease, Tempt....

    Its normally very easy if you are a
    Scorpio woman

    lol
     
  8. Animularisen

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    Oooo sexual
     
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    Are you naturally domineering by nature
    or is it something you find difficult to do?

    :)
     
  10. Animularisen

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    Difficult... Although I'm actually getting used to being in control.