I know this has probably been covered before and that people's experiences are going to vary widely between the positive and negative. It's just another post got me thinking about my own which was a relativly happy experience. Although I was lucky in the advice I had gotten from other people. I'd had a few fumbles with boys when I was quite young and the whole experience turned me off sex. I didn't really masturbate that often and my attraction to boys wasn't that strong. Anywho I did want boyfriends which I had from about 13 on. But unlike a lot of my friends there was never any sex although I did enjoy snogging and I'd let them touch me (although I didn't enjoy that as much). Anywho I was really lucky because at the time there was a really good sex education class at school (which they've since scrapped) which thought alternatives to penetrative sex. I also had an aunt that would always ask me about what was happening with boys. My mum and dad were quite sensible, my mum just told me that I could have boys in my room and she wouldn't disturb me just to stop me going some place dodgey. Anywho after a few not so serious bf 's who were mainly just a social thing I fell for this guy down the street and I was totally besotted. Anyway eventually I got him to chuck his current gf and go with me. I hadn't really changed my views on wanting sex though. You can see the problem when he dumped a gf that was putting out for one that wasn't. So I told him him that even though I wasn't ready for oral or vaginal sex yet I'd do other stuff. He wasn't that keen on wanking himself or me doing it for him, but we experimented with varioius stuff, such as him masturbating himself by rubbing against me. My knickers were my big symbol of protection, if they were off his cock was zipped up, and if his cock was out my knickers were on (it actually became a little bit of an art). In the end what he really liked was masturbating by rubbing against my knickers from behind. Beware if you do this the semen finds its way into the strangest fucking places Anywho after about 5 months he joined the army and i promised on his first weekend home we'd do it. But at this stage he wasn't bothered because he was getting more sex from me that he'd gotten from his previous gf and he seemed quite happy. Anyway big day came my knickers came off and I was in his lap trying to lower myself on, I was wet but kept clenching up. my hymen was still intact despite all the sport I played and was being a mare.I was swearing like a bitch while I tried to put him inside me and get over my muscles clenching up and what seemed to his cock bouncing of my hymen when he did. Anywho he asked me if I still wanted to do it I said yes and he flipped me over and did it with one quick manouver. Anywho I went all girly and wanted hugging so it was kisses and cuddling for a while. He thrust a little bit but more but didn't come and I was feeling a bit icky. I ran to the toilet to clean up he was still hard when i got back. Then he asked me to put my knickers back on so he could finish which was quite funny I think I had trained him quite well. We did have sex with some success over the next few days but he was more interested in me going down on him plus he kept wanting to go back to the wanking. Anywho sorry if this is too long and bit of a trudge to read. But I'm just reliving the events in my head as I'm typing this. So does anybody else want to post anything?