How did you learn to masturbate?

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    Did you stumble upon it on your own, did a friend teach you, etc?
     
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    Always been a scientist; trial and error!
    Nah, in my days you would never admit to wanking, prevailing authority stated it would cause you to go blind and deaf.
    These days I wear specs and in noisy environments need to wear hearing aids which proves the point exactly but it took 60 years of self abuse to get there :)
     
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    I had been humping my bed for a while. Then I was told about how to manually stroke it. After experimenting one day, I found it quite pleasurable. From then on it was hand to cock stroking.

    I honed my skills as the years went on. Of course, I LOVE stroking it!

    Simba
     
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    I'm a little ashamed to say I have no idea. I don't remember ever learning. I just know at some point I was doing it regularly, but I don't remember when I started, how or why.

    Man, I'd really like to know that.
     
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    Still learning
     
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    I just remember my dad coming into my room one night and saying "so your mom tells me you want a lock on your door, I guess you finally found that thing!"
     
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    Like lbush said, trial and error!

    Hey, what happens when I do this... Well that feels good, I guess I'll do that more often! Haha
     
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    For me at least, this isn't a joke. There are so many ways to explore.
     
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    I tried it after watching a film, where a guy did it (non porn/non nude/non gay) before i'm judged!!

    I thought I needa try this. I was unsuccessful at first as I didn't really know what I had to do... I soon learnt :D
     
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    Talk us through your exploring ways.. im all ears :lol
     
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    I guess where I was going with this question was specific to my experience - as a young teen, truth or dare with some guy friends led to a year or two of us messing around with each other, which eventually resulted in "hey, look what happens if we put this slippery stuff on it and rub it up and down for a while".

    So now many years later, generally straight (I'm curious, although I'll probably never act on it), I'm wondering how many other people messed around and learned to masturbate with friends?
     
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    I just started with anything I that would fit in there that I could have control over.......cucumbers, zuchinni , hairbrush etc........(the bigger the better, even back then....) I discovered the joy of clit stimulation by trial and error...... but there is no substitution for a hard cock and a clever tongue.....LOL
     
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    Just explored myself really, I started with a hair brush which i think most girls do.
     
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    I just did it one day (pretty late I think I was 14). I can't remember anything triggering it except curiosity. Oddly enough, I didn't really like it the first time.
     
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    hmmm i rubbed mine up and down with my hand and thats the most pleasure for me when it comes to masterbation so i figured it out from that.
     
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    I seem to remember humping a pillow until I figured out my hand was easier!
     
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    There was a neighbor girl who was older start on me but we were interrupted. I continued later. Lol
     
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    I started masturbating early i was still in diapers and i discoverd early i felt good if i rubbed my self down there. So i took any oppertunity i could. And my hand would rub my self thru my diaper and i would only stop after my mom yelling at me. Telling me thats gross. I know this to be true becauses my mom use to tell me storys how i embrassed her with my masturbating. I did it in the stores while mom was shopping i did it in the doctors office. I one time pulled it out of my diaper stroking it at my grandmas house during a fourth of july family bbq. In front of aunts, uncles , mom , dad , everybody. Mom told me the males all laughed and the females all were eewww make him stop. My mom yelled at me and spanked me hard. Ever since that day i always feel a twinge of guilt after i cum. Even to this very day i feel slightly bad for doing whats natural.
     
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    I can't remember how old I was other than I was fairly young. I was stroking it in the locked bathroom while standing near the sink and I remember having my first dry orgasm. I stopped at first cause I wasn't expecting it (whole body shook and I almost fell to the floor) but it did not take me long to realize it felt incredible and I picked up where I left off.
     
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    OMG, I will never look at a hair brush the same. :D

    I learned by trial and error. But it was probably one trial. haha. I don't remember my first time rubbing one out, but it didnt take much for me to figure it out. When I was in high school, I was hard probably 50% of every day, and mostly for no reason. It was actually really annoying, try walkimg around with a boner at school. And back then the jeans I wore were not baggy at all. I never really thought about it that much at the time, but looking back, I'm sure people noticed a bulge in my pants.
    Anyhow, walking around with a boner that often I came to realize that simple stimulation, pretty much any kind, felt good. So when I was in the privacy of my home, I had to release, and I probably did release almost daily all through my teen years.
    I was always at home, and did it solo. No experimenting at all. In fact, in my neighborhood, no one admitting to jerking off, it was something that others would rip on you for if the word got out.
    I was super horny though, and at times, it would drive me crazy. Plus, being a teenager walking around with a bulge in my pants in public like schools or malls was extremely annoying. But I didnt dare relieve that until I got home.
    It was better to deal with flack for walking around with a bulge, and at least I could brag about the size of the bulge, vs admitting or getting rumors started about jerking off. But in my neighborhood, guys never looked a each other pants, cause if you did and if you were caught staring at a guys crotch, there's a good chance you would get a lot of flack for that.
    It really was something that no one talked about in my neighborhood.
    If a guy wasn't getting off by having sex in the high school days, he just didnt talk about it.
    My neighborhood was a combination of blue collar mentality, with kind of old school mixed in. Basically any kind of rumors outside of sex would pretty much ruin anyone's reputation to the main social circles at my HS.