How did you discover Maturbation?

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How did you discover masturbation?

  1. By myself.

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    71.7%
  2. From a parent telling me.

    2 vote(s)
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  3. From someone else telling me.

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    4.0%
  4. From a porno video.

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  5. From some sort of reading material.

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  6. From a family member (brothers, sisters, cousins) showing me.

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  7. From a friend showing me.

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  8. In a class lesson on the subject.

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  9. Other

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    5.1%
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  1. s1ng1nf00l

    s1ng1nf00l New Member

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    The title pretty much explains it all... Just tell us your story, whether you discovered it by seeing it ina porno, your friend showed you how to do it, you read about it, etc... The way I found out about it was my dad told me in a very vague way, that made it sound like a bad thing to do. About 2 years later, I was watching late-night TV, and suddenly, there was a show with two lesbians having sex, and they were showing EVERYTHING! I had never seen something like this before, and I was immediately aroused. I was turned over on the couch, and started to rub up against it, I guess it was instinct that caused me to do it. Then, I felt the most amazing rush I ever felt in my life before, and knew right away what it was... I had jizzed in my pants. I was so paranoid that someone would find out that I quickly washed my unerwear, and hid them, and later threw them away. I then tried actually masturbating in the shower a few days after with my hand, and knew that I could never live without it again. I usually do it in the shower now, but I'm very open-minded, and have done it everywhere from my bedroom, to my bathroom, to in a public restroom...

    Now, everyone else post your story... :)
     
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    s1ng1nf00l New Member

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    (reffering to the poll) This question isn't quite reffering to how you learned what masturbation was, it's more reffering to what really made you start doing it... (this may be a little confusing). For example, my dad sort of told me about it, and I kinda knew what it was, but I pretty much discovered it by myself, because I didn't REALLY know what it was until I did it by accident on the couch.
     
  3. mr_fongo

    mr_fongo New Member

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    well, friends in school had always shown the gestures etc in class.

    i didn't know exactly what they were talking about but i had a pretty good idea. i was standing in the shower, looked down, thought i'd give it ago, and i got "the warm rush" :brow

    although whenever i rubbed against the bed in the morning, sometimes it felt good...didn't know what it was back then
     
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    I think it is natural

    I did it in first grade, though I never had an orgasm from it. It is funny the poll pretty much say most people discovered masurbation on there own. So the rummors you will go blind pretty much go out the window, so many people risked there sight in the olden day.......... :lol
     
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    s1ng1nf00l New Member

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    lol... yeah... But it is true that some people learn other ways... obviously... Though it may sound bizzare, there are actually many people out there who have been shown how to masturbate by a friend. They actually have a lot of surveys about it and stuff like that on jackinworld.com (hopefully this is not a site that cannot be mentioned here, but if it is, whomever deletes these links or web addresses, will just erase this website name from this comment, or erase what I've written here in parentheses... :)... ) That's a great site all about masturbation, but it's mostly educational... I have learned a lot from it, whether it be about techniques, or about some things that people do or think of during masturbation, that are actually normal. It's actually a very great website!
     
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    People talk about it at school and that..At one point i thought it was people having sex with themselves..Which in somew ays is true i guess.
     
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    s1ng1nf00l New Member

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    I guess I'm gonna have to tweak the question to get different answers. I'll make it, "How did you find out about masturbation?" This question is much more broad, because even in my case, I would put the answer that a parent told me, though I kind of discovered it by myself... Almost everyone "discovers it" by themselves, but the way they find out about it can be from something much different. Well, post away!
     
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    Glio_Amarvi New Member

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    Talk about sheltered....

    If we're talking about "finding out", meaning verbal affirmation or information, I had been doing it for some time without climaxing, not knowing what it was, when my boyfriend brought me to orgasm by grinding me fast enough and hard enough during a make-out session. He was quite pleased with himself! Until that happened, I always got scared before orgasm and stopped. It felt to me like something was going to rupture inside me. I just knew I'd end up in an ER, my mother at my elbow, listening to the doctor explain to her how I'd injured myself! Anyway, immediately after that first climax, my boyfriend explained to me (I was very surprised by the climax) what had happened and asked me if I was masturbating. That was the first time I heard the word and also knew what it referred to. He was very kind about it and gave me what turned out to be very good advice.
     
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    s1ng1nf00l New Member

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    Yeah, for your situation, I would have answered "Discovered it by myself," because though someone told you what it was that you were doing after you had done it for a while, you still basically found out by yourself. 'Cause if in your case, you put "someone told me," then no one's answer would be "by Myself," 'cause even if they did do it before without knowing what it was they would have eventually found out the term "Masturbation" from someone or something else... Ok, I know how to resolve this poll question... Only answer "By myself" if you actually masturbated without even knowing what it was... There, I think that solves it... ;)
     
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    my cousins cosmo at age 12
    although i KNEW i was "supposed" to be thnking about guys... i just couldn't... girls did so much more for me
     
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    I think everyone knows how to masturbate..Its instinct even when i was really young I knew rubbing my penis felt good..And I wanked a lot but didn't cum..Because I wasn't that far along..And then I did have my first orgasm and for fucks sake it was good...I wanked quite a few times that day..Its like when you get something new you have to keep looking at it...If you feel the orgasm sensation you want more.
     
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    For me, I never knew it would feel good to touch myself down there... I guess I was always a little boy who thought it was "dirty" to his own penis, so I didn't until my first orgasm, which was also my first ejaculation, on the couch. After that, I always masturbated...
     
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    My best friend at the time had come up to my apt. to watch some tv (not sure of the age but I had to be about 12 or 13) and I went to get something in the other room and when I got back he was playing with himself. I asked him what the hell he was doing and he told me. That was the first time I heard about masturbation. I figured I'd try it, I did my thing, of course nothing came out at that age, but it felt damn good. I've been doing it 298 times a day since then.
     
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    lol... I hope that's an exaggeration of number... I don't even know if I could do it 4 times a day...
     
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    Well yeah, but on average I do it about 10 maybe 12 times a day. I usually do it 2 or 3 times in a row. I guess that's good I got stamina lol
     
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    lol... wow... I wish I could do it that much without like ripping the skin off, lol. I do it pretty rough though, so it usually takes a day to recuperate.
     
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    I don't remember the "first" time. Seems I always played with myself. I do remember the first time I cum, (never forget that feeling) I was eleven, standing up in an an old tin bath tub just after my bath. Soon I was masturbating so much that my penis would get sore. Still masturbate... not as much now. LOL
     
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    I'll never forget my first wank, although I didn't realise what I was doing. I was in bed and had some form of itch on my knob head. I started to rub it but it got worse, within a very short space of time my hands were covered in a sticky goo. Didn't know what it was 'til I got downstairs to the bathroom. I think I was about 14.
     
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    I think for me it was porno. I found out about that stuff pretty early in life. And i also learned from a friend. A guy. I won't get into it though. anyway, i was into porn around 13 years old. And then it grew from there.
     
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    For me it was my friend's single mom, she used to take me to a nude beach when I was like 14, then when we got back to their house I used to spend the nite and her and I would play with eachother, she taught me lots about a womans body she was like in her early 30's @ time and she also taught me how to masturbate, but I didnt really enjoy it @ time cause I had her at the time, eventually I moved out of town and lost contact with her and my friend and then I started to help myself shortly afterwards.
     
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