How can she Cum??

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by lloyd christmas, Jul 31, 2007.

  1. lloyd christmas

    lloyd christmas New Member

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    Hi,
    im not sure wat todo here...When i have sex with my girlfriend she doesnt feel anything nor get any way turned on...i can get her to cum by stimulating her clit no problem but with intercourse she just doesnt feel anything (she says it feels like she needs to urinate)

    Any ideas what i could do...ive asked her to tell me what she likes when im inside her but she doesnt really know...Please any suggestions greatly appreciated!!!

    Thanks
     
  2. cook74

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    Dude, get in line! There are a million men out there that cant satisfy their partners through intercourse. Clitoral stimulation is great once you learn how to use it right.:brow
     
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    Go with what works. Don't worry about vaginal orgasms, many women don't orgasm that way. Intercourse should still feel great to her even without an orgasm.
     
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    Many girls cannot cum through intercourse, get her off a few times before from either oral or hand stimulation and then just enjoy sex for you, it still feels good for them, but they just cannot finish..
     
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    When having intercourse make sure your mons is
    against her clit and grind against her not just straight in and out.

    Hiker
     
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    The feeling to urinate is the first step......of her having a squirting orgasm. Most women I have talked to have said that it felt the same way for them, before they were squirters. If it was me, I would say.......well lets keep doing it, put down some towels and tell her the next time she feels like that.....to go with it and just see where it goes. She will need to relax and just go with the feeling........

    You may find that her orgasms are just lurking around the corner........
     
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    Female ejaculation my friend that is what that is when a female feels like she has to pee and it is the best thing ever!! Its clear, oderless and doesn't stain. It is also called squirting. I myself can do this but any female can.Go look at this site: http://www.sextutor.com/ejaculation.shtml

    But a lot of females have issues of not feeling anything but i think this is due to the fact that they don't know themselfs compleatly or they are not comfortable with themselfs or sex in general? Try some toys like vibrators or add some spice to the sex get that imagination flowing and try new things, posistions and places exotic becomes erotic. ;) oh and always always hit the 'g' spot that always helps
     
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    During intercourse have your gf rub her clit or get yourself into a position that allows you to do it. I find it easier to have her do it plus it turns me on to watch her!
     
  9. Paula

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    exclude me
     
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    sure u can. according to the site ive posted http://www.sextutor.com/ejaculation.shtml and to a few porn clips ive seen that were instructional vids one had 4 or 5 girls that had never squirted before and they had male partners to 'help' out along with cytheria the queen of squirting who needs no help. All you do is find your g spot and yes all females have the "g" spot that is not a myth (im a sex addic so ive studied a lot about sex) then rub it with a constant rhythm making the g spot rise and thicken and then rub the clit with rhythm and when u feel the urge to pee just let it go. I think this is why they have invented the vibrator that have the rabbit or dolphin added on so you can get that extra pleasure and to help reaching that ejaculation. You just have to know your own body extreamly well. And if i seem like im rambling on about something you already know im sorry, i just love talking or explaining about a topic i know and love.
     
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    The feeling that she needs to urinate is a feeling I get when my gspot is stimulated.

    make sure she goes to the toilet before you get down to it, so she can relax.

    x
     
  12. Paula

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    I did try

    getting this go away feeling when rubbing the spot :ugh
     
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    you just need the right help ;)
     
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    you're welcome :eyes