How can i last longer

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    StrokerAce New Member

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    I would really love to last longer for my girlfriend, the amount of time it takes me is pathetic.Is their anything I can do to prolong things. The only time ]it takes me a long time is if ive been drinkin quite a bit. Then i dont remember it so thats no use, or i just pass out lol. I NEED HELP!
     
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    four things

    change the way you masturebate, the way you masturebate effect the way you have sex, the longer you last while you masturebate the longer it is going to take you during sex.

    change the rhythm of your humping slowing down can help you last longer.

    if you know that you are going to have sex that nite then jerk off to get rid of the EZ erection.

    finally, when you are about to cum change position's which should change the sensations on your penis.
     
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    Ive heard that theirs a type of condom that nums it? Ever hear of it anyone?
     
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    yeah but i never used one you can get them off the internet.
     
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    ...but doesn't that kind of defeat the ultimate purpose of sex in the first place? ..just wondering...
     
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    I dont think it defeats the purpose, i just like to see my girlfriend having an orgasm, kind of excites me. Ok the durex performa condoms are the numbing ones. They contain benzocaine at the tip to numb it. Oral jell contains benzocaine :phat Kind of gives me an idea. Will it work? Will it kill me?
     
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    There is an all natural herbal supplement for this problem. It is WAY better than Viagra or any other pharmecutical. All I can say is that it is incredible!!! They're called King Kang Sex Poppers, from China.

    I have been using them for almost 2 years now. Side effects are almost un-noticable. A slight rise in body temp and B.P. (blood pressure)

    But the good effects are harder firmer erections, and the ability to last as long as you want to. Plus 2nd and 3rd erections are so easy to attain and maintain.

    I am a 43 y/o over-worked, over-stressed, diabetic alcoholic. The doc wanted me to try all the pharms available. I did, and these poppers outperform all of them.

    I'm new here, and don't want to break any rules about posting links. A Google search will bring up one site that sells them. They are way over priced there. I buy mine from a local vitamin store in S. FL that is owned and run by doctors. They will ship them anywhere.

    Do a google search for "barry's vitamins boca" and that's the place. It's not listed in the online store. But call them and they'll know exactly what you're talking about.

    I hope this helps some StrokerAce. I may be a newbie poster, but I'm no noob when it cums to matters of sex. :brow
     
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    Herbs arnt for me i like real drugs. Not trying to knock you but i think their all a bunch of BS.
     
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    Oh well. You can't knock it till you try it.

    Just a side note here... he sells 10's of 1,000's of them to the adult video industry. :D
     
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    Who's He?
     
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    you are probably not going to last longer with that condom and i doubt that and ethical doctor will give a perscibtion to a 18 year old boy. your best bet is to stay in shape and desensatize you ding-o-ling with masturebation before sex and fingering, having oral sex, before intercourse. most gals wont cum just by way of intercourse anyway.
    have you ever made her cum from other ways of sexaul contact.
     
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    See above post:


     
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    What is a shame here is that you come here looking for advice, but with a closed mind like that, you'll never learn anything. :uhh:
     
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    are the pills expensive.
     
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    Six doses for $20. A LOT less than viagra.
     
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    18 year old boy? Learn to respect your betters not your elders. Open mind? I have a very open mind, but im not gona waste money on some overpriced placebo, sounds to me like one of those all natural cock enlargement pills BS. And whats with this all natural herbal crap? Everythings natural, everything comes from the earth i dont care if its toxic waste...its natural. Bottom line if it worked it would be a perscription drug...or at least a drug.
     
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    Like I said, I've tried just about everything out there, prescription and herbal. I know what works for me. Your comments above further prove your close-mindedness.

    You sound like you got the whole world figured out. And in only 18 years. :whoa

    If taking something that raises your B.P., or can even cause blindness is something you'd rather experiment with, by all means, go for it.

    I can tell you this... my last 4 sexual partners have all fallen head over heels in love with me. And trust me, it's not due to the fact I resemble Homer Simpson in every way imaginable. :lol :lol :lol


    Bottom line is: You asked for advice. We gave you some. But you know better than we do. I feel sorry for you. But I feel even more sorry for your girl friend. :uhh:
     
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    didnt mean to "disrespect" you i always call every one boy, gal, chick, dude,ect... just as a reference to their gender.

    at the same time i dont know what you really want do you just want to last longer to impress her or do you want her to have any type of orgasm or a orgasm from intercourse. if you just want her to have an orgasm you might not be able to do that with intercourse alone. and depending on the relationship she may not trust, or care about you enough to relax so she can have an orgasm with you.

    if you simply want to last longer to impress her or stroke your ego then my advice should work, their are porn stars who do relatively the smae thing i told you to do. i have also heard that if you put cocaine on you penis it can num it and make it stay harder longer.

    as for herble medicine i would have to agree with you to a point most of these medicnes dont work or dont work for everyone. and half of them dont have all the stuff they say they have in them. but i have had positive result from some of the pills i have taken that you may consider to be herble. but i used them for weight lifting. they were; 1-ad, creatine, NO2, and ephradra. i dont think that it would be fair to say that you feel as though you have the whole wolrd figure out though, nor do i think it is a good idea to totally give up on herble pills. NO2 might help you though it is based around the same idea that viagra is.

    if you can last upto 5 minutes that is normal amount of time for sex. and no good doctor would give you a perscribtion for that, some of the perscibtion can actually cause pre-ejactulation when given to a healthy person. if you are already using condoms and still cant last that long i doubt that those other condums will work. if anyhing you might have a hard time staying hard becuase of the lack of sansation to your penis. these condoms are as much as a gimmick as herble med's, after all if these work so great then all condoms would probably have it in them

    i my self have been able to last as long as 3 hrs having sex, and atleast 1.5hrs with pure intercourse, my dick doesnt stay rigidly hard during the whole time, but i can orgasm and keeping going and have another orgasm. i believe that i can do that becuase of the way i masturebate and kegel exercises. i cna last 3 or more hours becuase when i get close to cumming i change position or i move to performing oral sex. or change the rythm of my humping. if you watch porn movie you will notice that the acters do much the same thing i am telling you to do to prolong sex, such as taking it out and stroking it for a period of time instead of humping.
     
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    this something I read years ago in some book. It tells you that to learn to control your cumming, a good lesson is to while your peeing to stop yourself by using muscle control, then let it go and then stop again. keep doing this till you can completely stop with no discomfort. I used to hold my trips to the urinal till I was bursting. Then I would stop and start until I was empty. After a few months of practise I was able to take that to the bedroom as well. Till this day I am still able to completely control my ejacualtions.I can last as long or as short as I wish. Its all about mind and muscle control. Try it and I am sure it will help.
     
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    Ok I might have to try that. My wife might think I'm in the bathroom jacking off though. :lol