Ok so some background, we have been together forever and she is straight. But recently she has said she might be interested in trying things with a girl. We have discussed this in the past and I have told her if she ever wants to she can without needing to "ask for permission". Now she has said she might want to and has already asked a friend of hers if she would be willing to, and she said yes. My wife has explained to me just because she might want to do things with a girl she isn't ready to right now, and I understand that. So my question is how can I talk to her to help her figure things out and maybe help her be ready to have sex with her friend without sounding like I'm trying to push her into doing it? I know if we just drop the subject she will forget about it and that's the end of that, but I feel if we continue to talk about it and her reservations about it she will feel like I'm pushing her to do something she's not ready to. Please help.