How can I have Anal sex with no pain

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  1. Destinyawaits

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    Hi ladies I'm under the understanding that some like anal sex so much that is all that is received, I have tried several times with small ones and regular size cock with lots of lubes you name it and for me is extremely painful, what is the secret? Is there a cream? I mean there must be a way to enjoy anal sex without the pain! Thank you all in advance for the suggestions and replies.
     
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  2. zoezoe

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    I love anal sex and there is always a little pain but if it hurts you to much then there is no pleasure for you and that's the most important thing so I would stop there is no point in you getting hurt anymore.
     
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    Relax relax relax
    Lube lube lube

    Start small, get used to a finger first
     
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    And stimulate yourself.
     
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    GET DRUNK! hahaha, no seriously. my serious first time getting ass-fucked was when i was drunk. then after that i loved it. i cant just do it all the time, i need to be warmed up... like licking & fingering, toys, etc. he just cant shove his cock in me (unless im drunk as hell) but seriously, pleasure yourself first, and make sure you even enjoy it before having someone fuck it!

    <3
     
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    I've been building up for anal sex for a few weeks. And finally was able to take it properly the other night! Being very arroused was a great help. And loads of lube. But mostly being in a comfortable position helped and slowly and gently at the beginning until I was really relaxed. I must admit I enjoyed it. And will be practising lots! ;-)
     
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    Always been drunk but always had some pain at the time of the next day
     
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    There is numbing lube as well.
     
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    If your anticipating pain your going to find it hard to relax. I used to concentrate on my breathing and go on top. That way I felt more in control. Good luck. It's so worth the initial pain.
     
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    Thank you curiousKitty will follow your advise ;)
     
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    Thank you Nikkitta will do :)
     
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    Glad you did white lily I will send did a comfy position and take it slowly thanks :)
     
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    Thank you will do! :)
     
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    I agree Zoe thank you :)
     
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    if its painful why would you keep trying? Your man is pushing you to?
     
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    Thanks for your concern not at all I'm single, when I did try it was years ago and I keep hearing from girl friends that they enjoy it I would like to try again whenever I do have a partner :)
     
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    Funny, I was afraid of being in control. I felt bf had a better view and could see what was happening.
     
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    I have to admit I am a bit of a control freak :)
     
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    Take it slowly focus on the training pleasure will cum later
     
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    How to "have anal sex with no pain":
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    PREPARE YOUR ANUS
     
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