[Ask a Girl] how can i ensure her first orgasm?

Discussion in 'Ask a Guy/Girl' started by heyitsRyne, Sep 13, 2011.

  1. heyitsRyne

    heyitsRyne New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 13, 2011
    Messages:
    7
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    WA
    hey ladies, my girlfriend is coming into town for the week and i wanted to do something special for her that shell never forget. she has still yet to have her first orgasm (were only 19), but i feel like the time is fast approaching. so i ask you, whats the best way to make her cum? she's never done it before and shes a little nervous. i was thinking of get her a little vibrator that she can use on her clit as i fuck her or go down on her. thanks in advance for your advice
     
  2. RideNaked2

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Aug 7, 2011
    Messages:
    1,075
    Likes Received:
    19
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Wisconsin
    Maybe you could shop for a vibrator together, so sure that it will be one that she will be comfortable using, if she is up for that.

    I hope that you have a wonderful week with her, even if your plans for orgasm doesn't come true, just make sure that you enjoy your time together to the best that you can.

    I hope all goes well for you!

    Good luck :)
     
  3. heyitsRyne

    heyitsRyne New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 13, 2011
    Messages:
    7
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    WA
    thats good advice. thanks! :D i hope so too. does a vibrator usually do the trick?
     
  4. Paula

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 25, 2007
    Messages:
    1,020
    Likes Received:
    26
    Gender:
    Female
    why use a vibrator? Use tongue or fingers. Vibrators are for more experience couples I think.

    It is all in your head and if she is nervous about it, don't do it the first time. And stop watching youngpornvideos...ever heard a girl talking during a BJ?

    Be realy nice to here, the rest will folow

    @do I miss some story here?
     
    #4 Paula, Sep 13, 2011
    Last edited: Sep 13, 2011
  5. Mittimer

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    May 3, 2010
    Messages:
    7,500
    Likes Received:
    4,380
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Fl
    Care to explain why your post says you're both 19 and yet your profile says you're 21?


    Lying about ones age is an instant ban 'round these parts, Partner.
     
    #5 Mittimer, Sep 13, 2011
    Last edited: Sep 13, 2011
  6. Paula

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 25, 2007
    Messages:
    1,020
    Likes Received:
    26
    Gender:
    Female
    That is why I posted I miss a story. Some things don't match. Also in other posts
     
    #6 Paula, Sep 13, 2011
    Last edited: Sep 13, 2011
  7. RideNaked2

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Aug 7, 2011
    Messages:
    1,075
    Likes Received:
    19
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Wisconsin
    NICE catch Mitt :)
     
  8. heyitsRyne

    heyitsRyne New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 13, 2011
    Messages:
    7
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    WA
    .. thanks for the help
     
  9. maplepurple

    maplepurple New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 14, 2011
    Messages:
    6
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Broomfield, CO, USA
    Yup, really nice catch.
     
  10. Alwayslearningsex

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Oct 29, 2010
    Messages:
    2,240
    Likes Received:
    782
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canada
    My advice is not to rush and do other things to "work her up"
    For example playing with her clit, start slow and easy, around it before touching it, ask her to let you know what is good but do NOT force it, she may be self conscious about it. Same thing doing oral, and use your fingers to explore in her vagina >> TRIM your nails real nice, have clean hands, take the time to feel all around. When on her back, turn your palm up and insert finger(s) in about 2" and you will feel a small bump, her g-spot. After some exploration give it some attention, slow and easy at first again. If she is open to the idea she will tell you how - harder, faster, etc.
    Keep at it and be patient, and keep in mind some women take longer to experience their first orgasm in life. Nothing to do with the partner sometimes.