Hi all, This is kind of a bizarre question. The boyfriend and I are moving in together this weekend. (Actually, I'm moving in with him, and I'm super nervous but that's another story) Now, he has a..masturbation..ritual, if you will. He works nights, so like twice a week, when he gets home at 5am or so, he'll um, tend to himself. We've been talking a lot about what will change, and he told me that he doesn't think he'll continue his ritual after I move in. He said he would die of embarassment if he got caught. I feel almost guilty about that. He hasn't acted like "damn you for screwing up my schedule" or anything, but I don't want to take away his personal time. (plus, the idea of catching him secretly turns me on big time - i'm such a ho! ) Is there any way I can encourage him to um..continue his private time?