Hotwifing?

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  1. Doitagain

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    Okay I don't like the term for some reason but whatever.
    This seems to be a big thing and yes a fantasy of many but what exactly is it?
    I have looked up a few sites and it's like a small cult lol. But seriously it seems that it is like a separate swingers sect. I have been in a swinging relationship but that has been some years ago now so i am not in the loop and personally do not know anyone that is into it or admit to it. But it seems the hotwife thing has certain things that i am not familiar with such as anklelets and Tattoos that are signs to the people " in the know " of what level they are into. Like Pandora charms to say what they are into and tattoo of a queen of spades to let people know they are into black guys. There are even specific hook up sites for just that not all sorts of sex like AFF.

    My question is does anyone here know of anyone that actually takes it that " far" to follow the charms and tattoo s and such? Have you ever seen this out and about? What's your thoughts on it ( besides just the fantasy you have with your SO).?
    Honestly now I look when I am out because I am curious if people actually do this...around me anyways ..lol like the free masons or something.
     
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    I have seen people with glow sticks signifying that they swing. Didn't know what was up with the sticks til I asked
     
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    It's just crazy. On several sites they showed the symbols and charms and what they mean. The site seemed to have a lot of members. I just wonder if it's around me and I never noticed. The whole thing intrigues me any way since my past relationships and I want to one day double team my SO and such.
     
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  5. Doitagain

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    hotwife-anklet-with-gender-symbol-charms--MjkyLTU2OTU1LjQ4NzI2NQ==.jpg Such as these? images.jpeg
     
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  6. John W

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    We haven't done it, but do fantasize about it. We have fine as far as her wearing an anklet on her right ankle in public with a key for a chastity device. It's fun for us and we have a great time when we get home.
     
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    Which anklet has the symbol for "I want to watch the boyfriend top another man?"
     
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    Too funny.... But this does sound fun and interesting...
     
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  9. Doitagain

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    That's my point. I have looked up and saw many different charms and symbols not all with a great explanation. That's why I am asking if anyone has anymore in site on it. It sounds like a fun game for the right couple. It is something I could get in on but I am sure my SO would not be into it but I won't rule it out.
     
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  10. in_heat

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    I wish I had an anklet that conveyed "Fuck Me"
     
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    Thanks ply

    Does anybody know an online store where I could get an anklet that conveyed "Fuck Me"?
     
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    You need an anklet to convey that message?
    I reckon dudes would line up four deep around the block for that!
     
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    I like the words "I Fuck" better than "Fuck Me".
    I don't know ..but I thought there may be some sort of symbol that represents "I fuck" without actually exhibiting any actual words.
    ...maybe some sort of symbolism that I'm not aware of.

    I found a site that sold "I fuck" anklets ...but the words were way way way too big!
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    ...and I don't like silver, I'm looking for something in gold.

    Something subtle, using preferably a symbol ...or alternatively 'tiny' "I fuck" words that couldn't be seen from a man's standing distance.
     
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    Hey, your hot name is enough..........lol
     
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    Me too!! LOL!!
     
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    Hi, naughty gf! :)
    ...great minds think alike!;)

    I was thinking, if I got a delicate gold anklet chain, and somehow attached a tiny pendant of a man fucking a woman missionary style, 'that' would convey the message.
    :)
    ...but, so far, I can't find a tiny pendant of a man fucking a woman missionary style in an online store. :(
    I'd like it to look like this...
    (except without the square background thing on it.)
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    ...but I can't find a tiny pendant of a man fucking a woman missionary style. :(
     
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    You might wanna do a custom handmade order. Check out Etsy site.
     
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    tumblr_mglcmuEm7h1rvillzo1_1280.jpg Seriously , I am fascinated with this stuff.
     
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    I checked out 'Etsy', jt _couple2012 ...but I don't have the time to look through the millions of pic' pages.
    I looked for some place to contact them to specify what I want, but I couldn't find a "Contact Us" anywhere.
     
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  20. jt _couple2012

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    Most of items on Etsy are hand made and you can contact any of the sellers and request special orders.
     
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