Okay I don't like the term for some reason but whatever. This seems to be a big thing and yes a fantasy of many but what exactly is it? I have looked up a few sites and it's like a small cult lol. But seriously it seems that it is like a separate swingers sect. I have been in a swinging relationship but that has been some years ago now so i am not in the loop and personally do not know anyone that is into it or admit to it. But it seems the hotwife thing has certain things that i am not familiar with such as anklelets and Tattoos that are signs to the people " in the know " of what level they are into. Like Pandora charms to say what they are into and tattoo of a queen of spades to let people know they are into black guys. There are even specific hook up sites for just that not all sorts of sex like AFF. My question is does anyone here know of anyone that actually takes it that " far" to follow the charms and tattoo s and such? Have you ever seen this out and about? What's your thoughts on it ( besides just the fantasy you have with your SO).? Honestly now I look when I am out because I am curious if people actually do this...around me anyways ..lol like the free masons or something.