Honest truth

Discussion in 'Member Introductions' started by lorenz, Jan 19, 2016.

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    Hi from England,

    I'm recently separated from my wife and we've had a long, rough time. Never done anything remotely like this before, but right now I just need a place to talk about stuff, particularly sex, without all the complications.

    Here's to feeling sexy again some day!
     
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    welcome to the site
     
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    Hello and Welcum :)
     
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    find yourself here and your inner secrets revealed. welcome.
     
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    Welcome!! Can you tell us what happened?
     
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    Well, a lot... In the end I'm not sure I was cut out for the job from the start. We had lots of great times, have two beautiful, smart children. Nobody else involved, ever, except in the imagination - fantasies, some we shared (one of which is your avatar!), some not. Even talked together about sharing pics online, but in the end I think one or both of us was always just a little too far out of our comfort zone to do it together.

    There was quite a gap between us in age and past experiences too (I'm quite a bit younger and she was only my second relationship). I don't regret anything, but have always been curious about what might have been in all sorts of ways (job, relationships, travel, hobbies, you name it), and in the end it started to get the better of me.

    There's obviously lots more to it, boring day to day stuff and outside pressures like money. But we both seem to be moving on (slowly) and for me part of that is trying to shake out a lot of pent up curiosity about my own sexuality. I am a million miles from contemplating another relationship, but if I'm ever going to have healthy relationships down the line then I think I've got a lot of sharp edges to chisel off first!
     
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    Welcome Lorenz, hope you enjoy SF :)
     
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    Welcome to SF xo
     
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    Hi! :)
     
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    Hello. Hope you have fun here and that it all works out.
     
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    I imagine at this point, you feel kinda alone and isolated, if just in your head. At least what you are going thru is something experienced by many of us. Plenty of support here, very little judging. Feel free to open up to this forum and see what kind of support there is.

    If you are here, it is because you are a little more horny than the average guy, wanting to do an MMF is a really good goal. My wife and I partake as often as we like and it is amazing. Time to stop fantasizing and start acting!
     
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    Things will get better in time, it may take a little long or not. Welcome and good luck. Looking forward to read what you share.
     
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    Hey Lopez sit right down ma man, grab a cold beer and chill :)
     
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