Hey guys and girls, this is a very serious question. When I went home on leave last week my ex girlfriend texted me and wanted to hang out. I said ok because I haven't seen her in so long. We hung out and it seemed like things really never ended between us. Kinda weird feeling but thats how it felt. We Hung out quite a lot while I was home the the 2 weeks and I had such a blast with her. A kinda big issue is that she has a 1 year old son and the dad is a piece of **** and isn't in the the picture. I got a text from her saying that she wanted to be with me. I had already told her that I didn't want a long distance relationship. I really do like her but I would have to change a lot of my priorities if I were to be in a relationship with her. This has been eating at me for a little while. I love kids but it takes a real man to help raise another man's child. not saying that I can't do it because when I was with her we had him with us almost the entire time and I really enjoyed every minute of it. The biggest thing is the distance part. I've tried a long distance relationship before and it seems to never work out. Please let me know what yall would do in this situation. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. Sorry for the long read. Just need some honest opinions.